Poll: Should members be BANNED for posting preggers prematurely, ie; before they've given birth?
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Yes, BAN them permanently! Enough is enough
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Give them one warning; (READ THE DAMN RULES)
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Keep things the way they are, and hope for the best in people
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jokerpaso
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(July 25, 2019, 6:00 pm)Porkchop Soooo... of course, I announce just days ago that I was going to post a fantastic quadruplet pregger AFTER she delivers and guess what.... someone posts this wonderful pregger beforehand!!
Yes, she posted in her last entry that she was headed the hospital to deliver but often they'll post A FEW LAST PHOTO's before going to the delivery room!
But now... this is in jeopardy once again!
I just couldn't be more frustrated!! Angry AngryAngry AngryAngry AngryAngry AngryAngry AngryAngry  Angry
https://preggophilia.com/fantastic-quadr...gression-t
(He just couldn't wait a few more days... just to make sure!)

Like i said in thread, im sorry, i didnt see this post! (yes, i did go in your profile for see where you write few days ago for answer because, i repeat, im sorry) The rules say to not pubblicate anythingh until she delivery or i wrong? if i do, i take the blame! 
If not, i follow the rules! No link, no name, just the progression! I read his story that his babies are born so i do a new thread, but, repeat again, im sorry to all of you if I wrong, make problems is the last thingh i want do. 
Im not absolutely try to save myself about ban or similar writing this post, i'm a honest boy, i thinked to be right with the rules, im not fear to take blame, the admin is free to delete my thread and do anythingh with my account.

It's from 2012 im here, i love this site, not shared too much but except  maybe this quadruplets i think i never do something wrong...but in future, if i'll stay here, never pubblicate any thread for avoid this type to discussion.

Sorry for my english, i know that's horrible but hope you understand what i did say.

Peace and love guys.
Liked by hadeg (Jul 26, 2019)
Fuckthisplace
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(July 25, 2019, 6:00 pm)Porkchop Soooo... of course, I announce just days ago that I was going to post a fantastic quadruplet pregger AFTER she delivers and guess what.... someone posts this wonderful pregger beforehand!!
Yes, she posted in her last entry that she was headed the hospital to deliver but often they'll post A FEW LAST PHOTO's before going to the delivery room!
But now... this is in jeopardy once again!
I just couldn't be more frustrated!! Angry AngryAngry AngryAngry AngryAngry AngryAngry AngryAngry  Angry
https://preggophilia.com/fantastic-quadr...gression-t
(He just couldn't wait a few more days... just to make sure!)

At this point you're just whining. The dude posted AFTER she gave birth did he not? If she posts any pictures afterwards, that's all fair game. Same goes for any other woman who decides to post any unreleased content weeks, months, or even a year after she pops. You can't get mad over someone who followed the "rules" just because you're holding out for a picture of her legs spread out across a hospital bed.
Liked by hadeg (Jul 26, 2019)
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Staff Member
@Porkchop I understand being frustrated, but we don't have a rule against posting before deliveries and @jokerpaso shared an excellent find. We can't impose this kind of rule because (a) it would seriously limit the amount of content shared and (b) there's no way to police such a rule. How would he have known you were planning to share this find?

@jokerpaso please don't hesitate to post moving forward. I'm sorry you're being criticized for sharing content.

Let's relax and move forward. Most people who share finds are quite cautious as it is. I appreciate the spirit of this suggestion but it's impractical to implement. We'll consider publishing a guideline though -- it does make sense to encourage people to wait.
Liked by auto_asphyx (Jul 26, 2019)
DarthKomar
Delete posts and give a strike via PM. Three strikes and they're gone. I'd hate to see someone banned because they weren't aware that said preggo hadn't given birth, I'm sure at the rate some of us mine places for pics we're all bound to do it from time to time.
Liked by auto_asphyx (Aug 21, 2019)
tomostrife
Why do people get so worked up about finding/posting a pregnancy first? Its not like it's your pregnancy and if you managed to find it out of the blue, what's to stop others from finding it? Just because you annouced a pregnancy first doesnt mean some of us havent been quietly watching prior to the announcement. I'd say roughly 70% of instagram content posted here, I found weeks ago by accident, I'm just too lazy to upload all the time.
jfingers
I completely approve of the bans I've seen here lately. Everybody KNOWS you don't ask for or give out contact info. When we see people publicly shamed/banned for doing so, it underlines the point for all of us.

I object to contact info much more than I object to early posting. I'm not tech savvy enough to know how much info is enough for a creep to spoil things for us. "Hey, look at this great preggo!" isn't much info. "Hey, look at this great preggo from Instagram!" may be too much.

As for early posting, you never know how early is too early. Amy D., bless her, has been pregnant four times and loves to share. Others don't post after the first pregnancy. (Maybe they meet creeps.) Can't tell in advance.

Who knows? Maybe it is just a handful of people who screw it up for the rest of us. Ban them. Job done. We can't control the world, but we can control this little corner of it.
Liked by auto_asphyx (Aug 21, 2019)

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