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Maiesiophilia Studies and Life
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saxon
I've been attracted to pregnant women all my life and no matter how much I've tried it's not something I can suppress in terms of desire. I am however utterly controlled and restrained around any pregnant colleagues etc. I am attracted to normal women too but for me pregnancy is the ultimate female form. I am blessed to be married and to have a child but we're too old and too broke for any more. I thoroughly enjoyed my wife being pregnant - she was never more beautiful to me.

That was many years ago now and since then I have got my kicks through pregnant porn and very very occasionally (i.e. probably once every 2 years!) through seeing a pregnant escort when I feel I desperately want to kiss a pregnant woman and to massage her belly and thighs. It took me a long time to come to terms with this as I believe in monogamy, I'm a decent and loving husband and Father, I provide well for my family etc and I work hard. It's against my moral principles but I do have some personal rules - it's just kissing and foreplay, no actual intercourse - in fact it's more about being able to worship the pregnant form for me and involves a lot of mutual massage etc. To be honest my wife and I while we still love each other don't really (after 20 years together) have any regular sex life anyway so either I'm going to spend my life devoid of physical contact and denying who I am or I'm going to occasionally enjoy a pleasant half an hour with a desirable pregnant lady who isn't going to come looking for an affair or to start sending me Valentines cards.

It's the best way I've found to deal with this - I get to experience some physical intimacy once in a while and the rest of the time I masturbate to porn. It's a very frustrating fetish though and nobody but my wife knows about my fetish and only her becasuse she found some porn links on my computer.

saxon
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MrCoolesta
(January 12, 2017, 6:15 am)saxon "I have got my kicks through pregnant porn and very very occasionally (i.e. probably once every 2 years!) through seeing a pregnant escort when I feel I desperately want to kiss a pregnant woman and to massage her belly and thighs."
"I do have some personal rules - it's just kissing and foreplay, no actual intercourse"

Yeah, because that makes it all better! Seriously, you're married to your "soul mate" you should've been more open about your fetish! Your wife is suppose to be (as this society is concerned) your best friend someone who you share your inner most thought with, someone you should especially be open with. The fact that you even go out to express your sexual desire to another woman (even if it's not intercourse) because your wife wont/didn't do it is a failure on both your part and her's.
motofoko
IMO something that works for 20+ years can be called anything but a fail.
Liked by friday147 (Feb 14, 2017)
Akhenaten
(January 12, 2017, 12:05 pm)MrCoolesta
(January 12, 2017, 6:15 am)saxon "I have got my kicks through pregnant porn and very very occasionally (i.e. probably once every 2 years!) through seeing a pregnant escort when I feel I desperately want to kiss a pregnant woman and to massage her belly and thighs."
"I do have some personal rules - it's just kissing and foreplay, no actual intercourse"

Yeah, because that makes it all better! Seriously, you're married to your "soul mate" you should've been more open about your fetish! Your wife is suppose to be (as this society is concerned) your best friend someone who you share your inner most thought with, someone you should especially be open with. The fact that you even go out to express your sexual desire to another woman (even if it's not intercourse) because your wife wont/didn't do it is a failure on both your part and her's.

Judgmental much? How is this failure? For all you know, his wife is like "look man, go get your rocks off to them young preggos. I know it makes you happy." That's a beautiful thing. Now, if he's doing this without her knowledge and consent, yeah, that would be pretty lame.
doubleintegral
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(January 12, 2017, 7:52 pm)Akhenaten Judgmental much? How is this failure? For all you know, his wife is like "look man, go get your rocks off to them young preggos. I know it makes you happy." That's a beautiful thing. Now, if he's doing this without her knowledge and consent, yeah, that would be pretty lame.

Yeah, that's pretty key information that we don't have. However, the other key information we're missing is the reason why he and his wife don't have sex. Is it because his fetish prevents him from getting it up for her, or are there other factors at work?

There's a line between a fetish and an addiction. Fetishes can be healthy and aren't necessarily something to be ashamed of, but if left unchecked they can easily spiral into an addiction, and I think we can all agree that addictions of any kind are not healthy. Saxon's case screams "addiction" to me, and even if his wife is aware of his escapades with pregnant escorts I would argue that that is unhealthy behavior. I'm late to the party on Marky's situation, but that's clearly a case of addiction as well.

Also, my longstanding advice to anyone who finds themselves addicted to pregnancy has been to get the hell off of web sites like this and stop feeding the addiction. Distance yourself from this kind of stuff as much as possible.
MrCoolesta
(January 12, 2017, 7:52 pm)Akhenaten
(January 12, 2017, 12:05 pm)MrCoolesta
(January 12, 2017, 6:15 am)saxon "I have got my kicks through pregnant porn and very very occasionally (i.e. probably once every 2 years!) through seeing a pregnant escort when I feel I desperately want to kiss a pregnant woman and to massage her belly and thighs."
"I do have some personal rules - it's just kissing and foreplay, no actual intercourse"

Yeah, because that makes it all better! Seriously, you're married to your "soul mate" you should've been more open about your fetish! Your wife is suppose to be (as this society is concerned) your best friend someone who you share your inner most thought with, someone you should especially be open with. The fact that you even go out to express your sexual desire to another woman (even if it's not intercourse) because your wife wont/didn't do it is a failure on both your part and her's.

Judgmental much? How is this failure? For all you know, his wife is like "look man, go get your rocks off to them young preggos. I know it makes you happy." That's a beautiful thing. Now, if he's doing this without her knowledge and consent, yeah, that would be pretty lame.

What self respecting woman would let her man go out and express his sexually desires to other women?
Pinkgirljuice
One thing I have been worried about as a female who has had this fetish-especially loving the aspects where I am fantasizing I am in pain with contractions etc, is wondering if my maiseuphilia is a paraphilia/disorder because I desire a sort of bit of imagined masochism in the whole thing-it is the most biologically painful experience a woman can have. Just curious to see if others saught treatment for the sado/masochistic aspects of preggo/birth fantasy. It seems like if I was a man It would be the sadistic part of seeing a woman in pain...and wondering the origins of that.
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saxon
Interesting to read others comments and they're not surprising. My wife and I had a very healthy sex life throughout the first ten years or so of our marriage, then we had a child, both of us made stressful career changes, money troubles - all the usual shit life throws at you and over the past 5 years only very rarely have sex - usually on a 'date night' or when it's a birthday or something. I think that like many many many long married couples that side of our relationship has become less prominent in the relationship as our focus has shifted on to raising our daughter etc. I've seen an absolute load of marriages amongst the parents at school falter and a load of kids now being raised by divorced parents amidst a background of animosity. I'd argue that remaining married but very occasionally treating myself to some physical intimacy is a better decision for the family and I think that's a decision made by thousands and thousands of married people who are out there seeing escorts, fuck buddies and having clandestine affairs. No it isn't as ideal as being married to somebody you have a healthy active sex life with, but it's a solution of sorts and by the way I was young and idealistic too once!!

Anyway I think that's quite enough of a discussion on the subject but thanks for the comments.

saxon
Liked by milknpreggy (Jul 20, 2019)
milknpreggy
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I would imagine that maiesiophilia is more common than it seems simply because sex/reproduction is one of if not the strongest motivational forces in life.

I remember when I was a teenage boy stumbling across pregnancy porn and what stuck out in my mind were the huge baby bottle nipples. Something about it disturbed me at the time.

Oddly years later I became enamored by lactating breasts after seeing some nadine-j pictures of daisey van hayden and her divine breasts. I was browsing picture galleries and found a picture or two from her lactation photoset. I had no idea she was even lactating since I was browsing random image galleries and the first few pictures I saw didnt show any milk or a nursing bra. I just knew I loved the way her breasts looked, size, proportion, and darkened areolas. I eventually found the whole set on the official site and thats when I began heading down the rabbit hole.

I have had a porn addiction since we got dial up internet in the late 90’s and my new addiction to lactating breasts eventually lead me to seeking out pregnant models since they would soon be lactating.

I think that simply progressed into an overall liking of pregnancy, not just the breasts but the belly and other body changes.

Honestly for a while I wondered if my lactation fantasies were really some psychological infantile reversion. While I acknowledge that as a factor I believe the main reason that I am attracted to pregnant and lactating women is because of the fertility it represents.

I believe its hard wired into the male brain that visually- pregnancy and lactation are attractive. It’s a huge encouragement by nature to continue life through mating.

The struggle I deal with is that my biology is telling me to make babies and my logical mind is telling me that the world doesn’t need any more humans and its really fucked up already, the future holds too much uncertainty, and creating a new life will also likely create an unconditional love that has so many possibilities for disappointment and heartbreak.

I can’t help but thinking I’m just fucked when it comes to the possibility of sexual satisfaction because procreative sex is both what I do and don’t desire and masturbation is only so good.

It sucks to hear that others are struggling with this, but I do feel less alone and like less of a freak after reading this thread.



By the way, this seems to be an interesting read, not specifically about pregnancy fetish, but the effect of technology(chapter 1&2 in particular) http://dl.oceanofpdf.org/wp-content/uplo...-Aiken.pdf
spurtcum2021
(September 5, 2014, 9:55 pm)Seech All,

I'm not sure about the rest of you but I've been a "pregnancy freak" pretty much since I started noticing women.  I've often wondered if there have been any serious psychological studies on pregnancy fetishism.  What is the root cause?

I've had a rather singular situation where my first wife was 5'2" and we had one child while my second wife was 6'4" and had twins.  Interesting memories.  The extremely frustrating thing I have never gotten over is the raw sexual attraction of when they were pregnant (especially with second wife) and being refused any sex because of medical reasons.  That SUCKED.

The reason why I bring these things up is because obviously attraction to pregnant women has been part of our lives.  How do we understand it and deal with it?  Thanx, Seech.
I'm gay and i love preggo...they are the only kind of women I want to fuck....3rd tri

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