I believe genetics, psychiatry and neurology offers clues to why like 1 out of 10,000 men (and same with some lesbians/gay women...and women overall might like to be pregnant) are attracted to a woman's pregnancy, the look and state of her body. I don't say it's abnormal, but unusual...pregnancy fetishism until recent times was taboo or something society wasn't comfortable with, because we didn't quite understand people who find pregnancy to have sexy qualities. Childhood experiences are thought to trigger an idea that pregnancy can be sexy or a turn-on, but only a small percentage of the population develop a pregnancy fetishism attraction.

From my point of view, I've always had a sexual attraction to pregnant woman and I am a woman. I am very fertile and can have children. But I don't want them and I think they r annoying and gross. Yall can be very open about ur sexuality but I can't. I am hiding as a man in forums because I don't want anyone knowing about this. This fetish has ruined lots of parts of my life sexually and I feel so ashamed of myself.

(August 10, 2016, 8:35 am)Marky_Roberts106 From my point of view, I've always had a sexual attraction to pregnant woman and I am a woman. I am very fertile and can have children. But I don't want them and I think they r annoying and gross. Yall can be very open about ur sexuality but I can't. I am hiding as a man in forums because I don't want anyone knowing about this. This fetish has ruined lots of parts of my life sexually and I feel so ashamed of myself.

*hug*

I doubt you are alone in this, in fact some other women have posted before who have this fetish, and it's a better fetish to have than many others out there.
Mind if I ask how it's messed up your life?

(August 10, 2016, 8:35 am)Marky_Roberts106 From my point of view, I've always had a sexual attraction to pregnant woman and I am a woman. I am very fertile and can have children. But I don't want them and I think they r annoying and gross. Yall can be very open about ur sexuality but I can't. I am hiding as a man in forums because I don't want anyone knowing about this. This fetish has ruined lots of parts of my life sexually and I feel so ashamed of myself.

Don't feel ashamed! Maybe when you are at a stable point in your life you could become a surrogate. Just say you like helping people; no one need know you want to be pregnant because it turns you on!

Well I don't even want to be pregnant... and the way its ruined my life is that I cant get off to anything else... Having normal sex sucks

Why is this even an issue? Of course men are crazy about pregnant women! If men were indifferent to pregnant women, not many babies would be born and raised. That's no way for a species to survive. Men love fawning over pregnant women, and pregnant women love being fawned over. If you like pregnant women better than non-pregnant ones (pre-pregnant ones?), find a RP partner. Isn't that why God made the Internet?

And Marky? My sincere sympathies. Some problems are tougher than others...

(August 21, 2016, 3:49 am)jfingers Why is this even an issue? Of course men are crazy about pregnant women! If men were indifferent to pregnant women, not many babies would be born and raised. That's no way for a species to survive. Men love fawning over pregnant women, and pregnant women love being fawned over. If you like pregnant women better than non-pregnant ones (pre-pregnant ones?), find a RP partner. Isn't that why God made the Internet?

And Marky? My sincere sympathies. Some problems are tougher than others...

thank you

Marky
I am on the same page as you. I'm female, straight, 30, still a virgin, and a tokophobe, never wantbto be pregnant or have children, yet I have loved pretending to be pregant, getting off on the whole idea since I was a toddler. Not sure why. I dated one guy who hated breeders and related fetishes and I told him i thought pregnant women were beautiful and he looked at me like I was crazy. That didnt last long, another guy I dated wanted to be a sub (I am extremely submissive). I remember I tried to hump him and it was not going well, he didnt dom at alll, I had to in my mind imagine that there was some sort of pregnancy involved in my imagination even though I was horrified of semen getting anywhere near me (birth control never worked for my body either, its always made me and all the women in my family very ill) So I get it. For a while in college I just tried to learn to get off on other things like a mans forearms, parts of his body, his dominance, etc, and not focus on the pregnant belly (as my fantasy ends very abruptly when I think about actual childbirth, the shit, your body parts being f'd up and all the pain.) I can only in fantasy whitewash the pleasurable aspect which gets me instantly wet.


It does feel like you are in a bind, the fantasy of pregancy, your own or anothers, but in real life terrified of even the risk of it or of children, it is confusing.
In real life I think it would be interesting to date a man who shared my fetish but I do think I would be paranoid he would actually want me pregnant, or he would lie or reverse the vascetomy behind my back, break the condom etc. Which would paranoia the shit out of me, and...

I have realized the best solution is to find a man willing to get a vascetomy (get it verified) using condoms etc whatever else, then just hoping he is in on the fantasy with you or will indulge you, dress up and you can stuff your belly, but not be willing to do anything that would risk in real life. It does suck that so many male preggo fetishists on here actually do want children, if not hyperfertile wives and lives. There are lots of "normal" women out there who want to have children. I am not one of them, I just get hyper turned on at the idea, never the reality...

So you are not alone lady! But we are not freaks either.

(September 6, 2014, 9:03 am)Victor Bravo How I "deal with it" is I just pretend they're not pregnant. It's not hard for me to do know I can't not look at them.I get so angry when I hear people say they can't control themselves. They simply chose not to.

That is especially true for me, for years I beat my self up because how strange this fetish is until recently when I threw my hands in the air and said, "Fuck it I love pregnant women, might as well accept it with open arms."

Cmon guys its all about self control. Imagine two heavily pregnant friends of your also pregnant wife, all together having nothing better to do than compare their stretch marks every fucking weekend in your living room and talking about how their boobs got bigger so they can not fit their old bras any more, while You serving tea with your stone face, not staring at all those round miracles, and not getting a boner. Yes my friends, self discipline is what makes the difference between a guy with imagination and a perv.