Hi everyone, my name is A, male 20 years old, from Mexico (sorry for my english, hahaha na i dont care)
Im a new member but I know this site.for so long that finally I decide to registrer.

Im here because I want to learn how to control myself, I read some post that taught me that im normal and i dont need to be a creepy stalker monster, thank you for that lesson. I want to learn more self control. But first something about me

I have this fetish since I was 4-5. I saw my mom pregnant twice, the first when I was 8 and the second when I was 16. During her second pregnancy she wanted more attention and love, and I cant gave her. I rubbed a lot of bellies, saw a lot and only kissed two, and Im still virgin, the reason?
I only want to have sex with my wife and Im proud to say it
In this moment I have a problem and want your help
There is a beautiful 7 month pregnant girl in my school. Black hair, white skin (maybe in the future I can give you some photos). The problem is that I just met her the last week, I offer my help to her, I touched her huge big belly, and asking if I can saw when she feels confortable, she says maybe, the problem is that I started to stalk her, she already knows, and I dont want to make her feel bad, What can I do? Apologize?

Welcome to the forums, A.

Could you elaborate on what you mean by "stalk?" Like you follow her around physically? Or you are invading her privacy over social media websites? (Both are not so good.)

Regardless of what "stalk" means in this case, if you've made her feel uncomfortable or threatened, you need to stop that immediately. If it's something you can apologize for, I would absolutely do that.

Was physycally, then I think its better stay away, you are one of the users that talk about self control, and i really like it, Akhenaten.
How I can make her feel confortable?

Well first of all, stop physically stalking her. Secondly, apologize. If she tells you to leave her alone, you have to let her go. If she forgives you, you have to slowly rebuild her trust by showing her you are a proper gentleman. I have had a hard time getting over girls that I really loved, but you have to, otherwise you will drive yourself crazy and end up in prison.

Just apologize, and if she accepts be the man that you would want to be with if you were a woman. Treat her with respect, dignity, and caring. Don't be pushy or seem desperate or crazy; that will scare her away.

Good luck to you, and if you need any more advice, I'm sure a lot of members on this site would be more than happy to help. I think we have all felt the same way about someone at some point in our lives.

Thank so much, I apreciate your words, I need learn patience

Yes. Patience is the most essential part of life, but it is the hardest thing to master. You are not alone. Heck, I need to learn to be more patient: I scare girls away. I am in the same boat as you, so I understand how you feel.

I know I'm kind of yelling at you, but I'm glad you came here and asked about this.

lovepreggies is 100% correct. I just also wanted it to be clear that never, EVER should anyone in this community be involved with, or lenient towards, anything that resembles harassment. We're not trolls or criminals: we simply like pregnant women and their bellies. We reject behavior that conflicts with these basic ethics.

It's unfortunate that you were stalking her and that she became uncomfortable, but it's good that you're going to stop and never do it again. If you believe she'd be open to having something real with you, go for it -- but if she's not interested, you must respect her wishes (no different from dating any woman, really).

Having patience is very difficult, though... I think most of us can agree on that. Very damn difficult.

im the same too vigin too waiting for my lady and knock her up hard lol