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Just thought it would be interesting to share this story I found with you guys.

In my opinion, if a woman with a partner lets people touch her belly, I think it's generally ok if its a just quick pat over her clothes. If my girlfriend / wife was pregnant, that would be my limit. I know it's her body, but I definitely wouldn't be comfortable with letting other guys rub her bare belly - that's too intimate. And I think any normal guy (unless he's a swinger) would be furious if his girl let another guy rub her bare belly. What do you guys think? Where do we draw the line?

That's pretty fucked up. He clearly seems like a rational guy, having looked at the situation from all angles and poked holes pretty easily in his wife's story. The neighbor, who is infertile, obviously has a pregnancy fetish that his wife probably shares.
And him threatening to mention it to the neighbor's wife, and the wife telling him not to is a huge red flag.
I wouldn't be okay with letting a neighbor I didn't like feel up my unborn kid.
The poor guy probably has huge trust issues with his wife now. That sucks

Also you're profile pic is hilarious.

To be honest, I think his reaction of kicking him out was justified given his situation. I could believe the neighbor's story. If I was him, I would let people rub her belly but not rub lotion on it like what the fuck?

Yay, more negative media attention for preggo fetishists! Sadly, the real problem here is cheating, PERIOD, not our fetish... but no one's going to think about that.

Quote:but I dislike the guy and my wife has never expressed any sort of closeness to him either aside from passing pleasantries, and she's not the type to let anyone she isn't close to put their hands on her. So in the span on a day the guy goes from being a distant acquaintance of hers at best to her deciding to invite him in and let him rub her?

She's been cheating on him behind his back for who knows how long. If I were the guy, I would opt for a paternity test before it's all said and done.

(June 28, 2019, 5:46 pm)Akhenaten Yay, more negative media attention for preggo fetishists! Sadly, the real problem here is cheating, PERIOD, not our fetish... but no one's going to think about that.

I agree. The problem isn't the fetish, but the wife's infidelity.

(June 29, 2019, 12:14 am)TacoTamale

Quote:but I dislike the guy and my wife has never expressed any sort of closeness to him either aside from passing pleasantries, and she's not the type to let anyone she isn't close to put their hands on her. So in the span on a day the guy goes from being a distant acquaintance of hers at best to her deciding to invite him in and let him rub her?

She's been cheating on him behind his back for who knows how long. If I were the guy, I would opt for a paternity test before it's all said and done.

What if it's still the husbands baby? Maybe the neighbor only started sleeping with her after she got pregnant.

I'm pretty sure he has the fetish, and may have only started taking interest in her as her belly got bigger and bigger.

Woof. Yeah, seems pretty clear that they were cheating on their spouses. :/ I think Mike Larry is right. They were probably just acquaintances at first, then once she got pregnant he became sexually interested in her, she enjoyed the attention, and infidelity ensued.

(June 29, 2019, 2:07 am)Mike Larry What if it's still the husbands baby? Maybe the neighbor only started sleeping with her after she got pregnant. 

I'm pretty sure he has the fetish, and may have only started taking interest in her as her belly got bigger and bigger.

At this point the husband has nothing to lose for taking the test. If it's his kid, then great and him and the wife can work on their relationship issues. If it's not his, then he can break it off since once the birth certificate is signed after she gives birth, that kid would be his responsibility, even if it's not his.

As for the neighbor if he did have the fetish, then it would be odd that he's still married to someone who's infertile.

Speaking of the neighbor's wife, it's also suspicious that the guy's wife was begging him not to tell her about what happened. Which in that draws more red flags that this has been going on a lot longer than 8 months.

1. Why would he show up exactly when the husband and his wife both went to work?

2. Why would he urgently need to borrow a toolbox at 9:30 in the morning and waited until he left to go and ask for his tools?

3. If she generally doesn't let strangers or non close friends touch her, why'd she let him touch her and rub lotion on her on the couch?

I'd agree on the paternity test. Better safe than having to take care of some other dude's kid for the next 18 years.