What I found someone finds out I have a pregnanch fetish?

Uhhh not sure how to read this

Oh shit sorry, I'm asking what I should do if someone, perhaps from my school, finds out I have a pregnancy fetish. Should I lie to them, should I be honest. What should I do to save myself?

(December 10, 2017, 9:20 pm)Finals Oh shit sorry, I'm asking what I should do if someone, perhaps from my school, finds out I have a pregnancy fetish. Should I lie to them, should I be honest. What should I do to save myself?

Depends who it is? Most of my friends know and everything is fine because we all have weird fetish’s

No easy answer to this. If they find your collection on a phone or computer and ask about it there's really no way out of it. Long ago my brother stayed with me for a few weeks when he separated from his wife and I didn't think about anything until he asked me one night about all the preggo pics on my computer. So I just told him the truth. At that point lying wasn't going to be believed anyways.

I'd prefer no one else ever find out about this (other than my wife who knows)

Same thing happened to me (I had some vids on my ipod) and my still girlfriend wanted to see what I was looking at. She had that "creep face" & said " why are their pregnant women on here?" So I lied & said "my best friend put them on here by mistake'" & she didnt believe me until i told him so he could bail me out.

DONT tell ayone that you dont meet here about this fetish. That is like a black man trying to date a white girl in the 40's.. not good. We are already frowned upon. If anyone finds out they will tell people & it will spread like fire. Some things are best left unsaid. They will never think of you the same way again. Lie, do whatever it takes. If friends and associates knew about this id be even more odd than I am.now.

I disagree. I have actually found both girlfriends and people in my life completely are fine with it. Some of my friends even go the extra step to talk to me about their pregnancies or let me feel their bellies without feeling weird b/c they know I am so fascinated by it.

One way I found out if someone will be okay with telling them, is if they are a person in your life that feel comfortable talking about sex and/or fetishes then they are cool with it. B/c most likely they have their own odd fetishes. I just explain it in a way that hey, im attracted to woman in a normal way if I find them attractive, and then I find pregnancy attractive as a separate attraction. It makes ppl more comfortable with you, especially girlfriends...b/c then they won't wonder if you find them attractive when they aren't pregnant.

My last ex was pregnant when we met, she obviously was cool with it. But really wondered how much id be attracted once she had the baby. One my ex's is now pregnant, the first person I ever told my fetish about, and now she texts me all the time and has sent me a few pics she hasn't shared with anyone yet b/c she already know how much more I would find her attractive because of it.

The only time I have ever been reacted with that creep face, is when I get caught. If someone finds those pictures or a webpage that was left up, and they didn't already know, then they get freaked out.

First things first, you should never hide this fetish from your SO. Most of the time it's not that they get upset over your having it, they get upset that you hid it from them and they had to find out the hard way.

But to answer your question, it depends who finds it. It's better for you to straight up tell the truth if a close friend or teacher finds out and have them promise to not tell anyone else, then to have someone you barely know finding out and end up telling half the school.

Also it would help to not look at pregnant women on your phone/tablet/whatever around people you're not comfortable in telling about it, especially in a school since someone can easily jack your phone if left unguarded.

Well someone went through camera roll during class and went through my album. Luckily I have no naked photos and he didn't make big deal of it. He didn't even seem that weirded, didn't even seem to care. Hopefully he won't tell anyone, and he hasn't seemed to treat me differently.

(December 10, 2017, 11:33 pm)Finals Well someone went through camera roll during class and went through my album. Luckily I have no naked photos and he didn't make big deal of it. He didn't even seem that weirded, didn't even seem to care. Hopefully he won't tell anyone, and he hasn't seemed to treat me differently.

You don't have a password on your phone?