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bballconnor
I think it's more out of paranoia than actual legitimate fears
Rudwah
I would say it is debased to pursue a job solely for fetish satisfaction but if it's a happy coincidence, that's nice too. But, aside from my moral high road, I've had many pregnant coworkers and never once felt any sense of lust or attraction to them, mainly due to them being more like sisters, and thus it started to feel real fucked up.

Also, from a pragmatic standpoint, the less people who know at your place of employment, the more job security you have, especially if your state can fire you legally for sexual orientation, because they could legally claim that and deny you not only a job, but unemployment compensation.

Should probably mention that I work traditional, specialty retail.
Liked by BigBellyBuddy (Nov 5, 2021), alexnj (Jul 28, 2021)
LTKNT101
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(July 27, 2021, 5:14 pm)bballconnor I'd be doing it to help other people, of course. I'm just worried that they might find out about my fetish and think that I'm a monster for impregnating them with my sperm to fulfill a kink. Believe me, I had no intention on having sex with the donor recipient. They were a married lesbian couple and I wanted to respect that.
 Becoming a sperm donor to satisfy the breeding fetish is not a bad thing. It allows you to help couples and at the same time get off on the satisfaction of knowing your sperm is impregnating a woman. There is no way anyone involved would know you are a preggophile unless you told them. You don't have to worry about the babies because nothing legally binds you to them. They are the couple's responsibility.
Liked by Akhenaten (Jul 28, 2021)
derperls
I dig pregnant women too, but I'd be creeped the fuck out if I found out the tech working on my pregnant SO had fetish for them. I need to trust that you going to do your job well not build your spank bank.
Liked by 13Scarlett (Nov 5, 2021)
jfingers
(July 27, 2021, 4:28 pm)bballconnor A while back, I thought it would be a good idea to become a sperm donor. After all, my sperm count is through the roof and I figured "What better way to use it than to give it those who need it more than I do?"

So I managed to meet up with a local lesbian couple who wanted me to be their donor. However, just as I was about to go through with it, I spilled the beans to my parents, who were unhappy with it to say the least. Apparently, they did not want to have the knowledge of a biological grandchild who was just walking around that wasn't technically mine. So, in a bid to please my parents, I reluctantly told them that I could not do it. I could tell they weren't happy, and for the next few days, I felt so awful about the whole thing.

But as I recovered, I realized that maybe it was a good idea after all. Honestly, I think part of the reason I wanted to donate my sperm was (at least subconsciously) to fulfill my breeding kink in some way or another. I realized just how fucked up it would be that my kid would have different parents simply because I was horny one day, and so I urge all of you to do the same: try and separate your fetish life from your real life as much as possible!!

Being a sperm donor is a galactically stupid idea even at a sperm bank that promises anonymity. In the case of your lesbian friends, all that would have had to happen would be for them to apply for public assistance. They'd ask who the father was and you'd be on the hook for child support. Sperm banks have had their records subpoena'd to assign child support.
ilachia74
Why is it a stupid idea? I'd have thought that going via legit banks should not be an issue. Just wondering as I'm unfamiliar with this.
LTKNT101
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I work at a child support office so I bounced this topic off one of the specialists. She told me a guy donating sperm to a sperm bank is 100% cleared of all responsibility for any child that is bred using his donation. The court cannot order the release of any documents pertaining to the transaction. The receiving couple signs a parentage document that makes them the legal parents. This protects them in the unlikely event the donor tries to take custody of "his" child.

The only time you can get in trouble is if you do the sperm donation without the assistance of a sperm bank. For example, let's say I have a female friend that wants a baby but her man is sterile. I collect some of my sperm into a container that will preserve it. I stop by her house and give it to her. She impregnates herself with it. After the baby is born she decides to go to the local child support office and file a case against me. It will be my word against her's and the court is going to rule in her favour because all tests will show I am the father of the child.

In a situation like this, I would be screwed. Doing an under the table off-record sperm donation deal with a woman is stupid. Donating to a sperm bank is smart.
Liked by TheWatchers343 (Nov 11, 2021)
IntoPreggos
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Remembering AOL chats in the mid? 2000s, I talked to a 40-something year old male (he claims that's his age at the time) of befriending a pregnant boss including in a holiday party and she kept inviting him to her office, then locks the door for half a hour (with a sign "Meeting in progress") and the office he worked in assumed he had important access to the company business she's heading. I'm surprised according to what he told me is they never got caught violating professional conduct protocol nor her husband never suspected she was seeing another man in what could violate her marriage vows. He was quite explicitly describing some kind of secret or taboo type of friendship like belly rubs (literally she lifted her dress while she sits in her desk) while she works saying it has that sensual, pleasing and "ASMR" feel to it, she was proud of being pregnant with the then first child and said there's nothing wrong for any men to be attracted to a pregnant woman as long she didn't mind to have a mutual friendship, because she liked to share her pregnancy, except he was the only one to showed an interest. After she had her baby, he decided to quit the office job to pursue a dream job and this further kept this illicit affair under wraps permanently and finally, he continued to chat to her online after she then relocated to another state since the business had another regional office. No matter how unethical this may be, I have to say life imitates art (imagine "the Office" episodes full of mature professional adult workers) or reality is stranger than fiction.
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Anxietywave
I could never get a job where I'm around pregnant women all day. I'd be hard for my entire shift
LTKNT101
(November 14, 2021, 5:16 pm)Anxietywave I could never get a job where I'm around pregnant women all day. I'd be hard for my entire shift
Mate, I would do anything for a job like this. Endless opportunities to meet pregnant women and the possibility of maybe getting a few flings out of it if you know what I mean...Being hard all day around protruding bellies and plump breasts is a price I am willing to pay.

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