I'm not American, so the whole mindset of marriage, guilt, peer pressure, etc, is completely foreign to me, I think it's a very christian/protestant thing. I am completely happy with my fetish and I don't give a single fuck about my "partner" or whatever you call it, if she likes it it's more orgasms for me, if she doesn't then she can find someone else. I was never insecure about anything relative to my sexuality and I really don't get the whole overthinking you're going through over here!
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(September 22, 2019, 7:04 pm)orta03(September 22, 2019, 5:27 pm)egnever23 *snipped* Not really an option. I work in a fairly high paid position in a grocery store, she as an optician at Walmart. Between the student loans she has we're still paying off, the costs of living where we are located, and the legal fees of adoption, we'd have to declare bankruptcy if we did adopt. Ditto IVF, as neither of our insurances cover it.
The pregnancy fetish isn't a "cool" kink like BDSM or voyeurism, it simply doesn't have that kind of popularity. It seems perfectly natural to me personally, which makes me kind of baffled that it isn't more common: If I'm interested in a woman's curves, surely those curves are even more accentuated when a woman is pregnant? And isn't making babies a primary biological function of (heterosexual, vaginal) sex? For whatever reason, many people associate pregnancy ONLY with creating children, while seemingly ignoring the amazing changes that a woman's body goes through and the beauty of the process itself.
So yes, I keep it a secret. I've hidden it from both my past girlfriends. I'm also into incest fantasy, which is even more taboo to discuss openly, yet is far more popular, as the predominance of incest stories on Literotica and "Stepmom" porn would suggest. It's a very difficult position for me to be in, and I find myself sexually frustrated quite often.
People that have negative opinions about the fetish simply don't understand it. I used to be ashamed about having this fetish and I'd tried repressing it until I realized I was programmed by society to feel that way. I still won't take unnecessary risks and tell anyone about the fetish just to avoid being shamed or not being taken seriously. I would only tell a partner I feel I'm in a serious relationship with and I would expect them to accept the fetish as part of me, even if not immediately.
I've always been a little ashamed of my fetish. I've tried to keep it a secret from everybody but my wife, but I've considered being more open about it recently.
Most of my friends are very open about their sexuality, and I have a few guy (and gal) friends who have confessed they like pregnant women. Honestly, compared to other fetishes, pregnancy is pretty vanilla. Along with pregnancy I'm also into pegging and cross dressing, which are both way more extreme than pregnancy (at least by American standards). I guess because I've had a pregnancy fetish for so long, my brain still considers it this shameful, taboo thing that I have to conceal at all costs. It's irrational, but that's what happens when you're raised in a society that demonizes sexuality.
I do think one has to make distinctions between a few directions in this fetish as it is not that easy to understand for someone who doesn´t have any clou at all. But - and I do agree with most postings - it is always a good idea of hiding it and keeping it as a secret. It is the same with incest(breeding) or similar things. There are far more people into it as one might think but no clear minded man oder woman is going to tell about such "special" fetishes or feelings deep inside. Of course it is the most natural thing on earth to fuck for getting impregnated - fetish or not - but it has to keep as a secret in the end. There is just one tiny real problem ... how to find togethter for it and make it happen (as often as possible)? Because of the social aspects beyond.
Fertile seed does definitely NOT belong into a condom! - Samen gehört definitiv NICHT in ein Kondom!
I'm relatively sexually conservative. I came from a household in which my parents never talked about sex or we overtly affectionate.
My wife is very conservative. She knows that I like pregnant women. It took me years before I let her know about it. We occasionally role play. She knows I like the dirty talk of getting pregnant. She let me indulge when she was pregnant with our child even though she always felt fat/ugly. My friends don't know about it. My friends and I have never really got into that kind of talk. The last guy in our circle is getting married soon, so if we go get drunk in front a campfire while drinking, it might come out. Maybe my father remembers that I do because he found a bunch of stuff on the family computer decades ago. I love the curves, I love the body changes, I love the excitement that women have about impending motherhood. I love it all. To me, its the ultimate in femininity. What my wife doesn't know is the extent of my fetish. She's relatively insecure about her looks. She gets it from her mother who just picks herself apart. They do it to each other every time they get together. It's absolutely infuriating. I think she would be really upset if she knew that I love looking at other pregnant women. She might be aghast as the amount of pregnancy content I have hidden on my computer. I have hinted at it, but I just haven't seen signs of reception because of her insecurity. Am I ashamed of it? No. But having grown up teased unmercifully, I'm very reluctant to spill the beans to people. I don't deal with judgmental people easily, especially something not widely accepted or even frowned upon by society
I find it best to be open and if the conversation heads towards fetishes I openly admit it,
my friends and family either except it and learn to live with it, or they don't doesn't bother me anymore. Although through my teens it was a big issue and I used to hide it from my friends at school and colledge, so i suppose it basically how confident you feel.
I'm feel kinda ashamed about mine, but that's only because I feel like I'm only attracted to pregnant women while they're pregnant. Like as soon as they have the child I lose all interest. The only option to play with my kink would be to have casual hookups with already pregnant woman with the intention of only having sex then splitting after pregnancy which I feel like wouldn't be fair to her, even if she agreed with the dynamic. I also become attracted to women just because they have a preggo belly even if I've never been attracted to her before. For example, I had a real tough time when my buddies GF was pregnant. I normally don't like her that much or think she's pretty/smart/funny but when she started to show all I could think of when I saw her was that I would love to pump her full of cum as soon as his back was turned, but as soon as she had the kid I was back to normal.
The other thing is that when I do meet a pregnant woman that's single and seems interested I feel REALLY awkward hitting on her. Especially when there's other people around to hear and judge me, not only because of my fetish, but because my game is AWFUL with women in general. Oh well, maybe one day I'll find a horny pregnant woman just looking for a casual pregnancy BF | |||||||||||||||||||
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