Let me change the perspective for a moment. It's interesting to reflect on Taboo stuff, what if this fetish (or any other) was not a taboo? It would be easier to talk about it with other people for sure, BUT...Would we feel the same attraction to it as in a taboo culture? Look around in popular porn (and I'm not talking about pregnant porn only) wherever you look you will see taboo stuff as every kind of incest, cheating, sex with the teacher, sex with the nurse/doctor, sex with a coworker, sex with high school girls....Just to say some general things that can apply to any kind of fetish. So my point is that we as a society generally are attracted to taboo stuff. You can see that not only in porn but also in many other things like movies, TV Shows, reality shows, books (God, there are so many "sick" books over there haha!) fantasy in general, REAL human history... We are addicted to consume forbidden topics and at the same time we need to fit in a normal society which judge taboo topics but only when, put it in some way, they are explicit. What do you think about it?

Wow this thread got huge, just dealing with some family stuff, will reply / read soon .

(September 4, 2019, 11:26 am)bongo79 what if this fetish (or any other) was not a taboo?

In the US at least, it's not a big deal for people to speak candidly about how much they like breasts and butts. If this weren't a fetish, I imagine it'd be about the same as that. You obviously wouldn't holler out "hey sexy mama, nice belly!" same way as you don't catcall someone about her fantastic cleavage, because that's just plain wrong. But in the right company, perhaps when "out with the boys" or whatever, you could mention how much you love them bellies and not get looked at like you're a freak. You could also tell your partner how you think she's going to look super hot when she's pregnant with your kids, much the same as how you might say her ass looks great in a certain pair of jeans, and she'd think that's great instead of weird. Of course that also brings up the topic of growing a family, which ya may not wanna do, but that's another matter.

Would it be nice for this to be "normal?" Yeah. I don't think it'd diminish the pleasure we derive from it, either. Well, not for me, anyway. The taboo aspects of it don't play into it all that heavily for me, but everyone's different.

(September 4, 2019, 3:52 am)Anonymouspreg You might actually be legitimately autistic if you genuinely believe this is a helpful mentality. Are you socially aware enough to notice the trend running throughout this thread?? Just about every man who came clean to his partner about his fetish got dumped in a moments notice regardless of their relationship’s context up till that point; simply put it’s a fucking deal breaker 99% of the time. Besides, you admitted it yourself, you don’t like “keeping secrets” and that’s entirely on you good sir, other men here have better self control than that. The last thing any level headed person should do is let their guard down enough to allow what’s normally contained within the internet merge over into their personal lives, people reserve every right to judge you as a weirdo when you try normalizing a serious social taboo like it’s just a sexual interest..
Wishful thinking will only get you burned in the end, take it from anyone else in this thread who fucked around and found out the hard way.

I don't know why you think it's fun to go around shitting on threads by calling people autistic (at least twice now), mocking pregnant models that choose to participate here, and other bullshit, but the site would be a lot better off if you didn't.

(September 4, 2019, 3:52 am)Anonymouspreg

(September 4, 2019, 12:55 am)Akhenaten But you know what you can do? You can share it with your partner. Why? Because maybe they'll be into it too, or at the very least they might indulge you sometimes. If not that, at least you've gotten to tell someone you trust, even if you're not ever really going to talk about it again together. And especially if you're the type who hates keeping things from your partner, you're probably going to feel compelled to share at some point for that reason alone

You might actually be legitimately autistic if you genuinely believe this is a helpful mentality. Are you socially aware enough to notice the trend running throughout this thread?? Just about every man who came clean to his partner about his fetish got dumped in a moments notice regardless of their relationship’s context up till that point; simply put it’s a fucking deal breaker 99% of the time. Besides, you admitted it yourself, you don’t like “keeping secrets” and that’s entirely on you good sir, other men here have better self control than that. The last thing any level headed person should do is let their guard down enough to allow what’s normally contained within the internet merge over into their personal lives, people reserve every right to judge you as a weirdo when you try normalizing a serious social taboo like it’s just a sexual interest..
Wishful thinking will only get you burned in the end, take it from anyone else in this thread who fucked around and found out the hard way.

I understand that in your past you might have faced rejection or at least social pressure to keep matters like these private, but what you're saying is so patently false it reads like you're trying to convince yourself that any hope of understanding is futile because you haven't found it and you don't want to consider a world where other people have and you haven't. Are there relationships that have been broken by stuff like this? Sure. Are there relationships where stuff like this is a nonissue? Of course, mine and others on here are some of them. Of all the factors that contribute to a relationship working, spend your time worrying about the manifold of other, more important ones that you read about in self-help books. If you reject this and insist your fetish is an actual roadblock to a relationship, reflect on why. If you feel like your sexuality is so tied to pregnancy fetishism that you fear the romantic needs of a relationship are unobtainable in the absence of indulging in it or mutual acknowledgement of it, consider finding psychological help, as this can be an actual, clinically significant issue.

(September 4, 2019, 2:50 pm)123Throwaway If you feel like your sexuality is so tied to pregnancy fetishism that you fear the romantic needs of a relationship are unobtainable in the absence of indulging in it or mutual acknowledgement of it, consider finding psychological help, as this can be an actual, clinically significant issue.

To clarify, are you saying that people who feel they need "mutual acknowledgement" of the fetish could have mental health issues? I may be reading incorrectly. I don't see how a partner who wants to communicate kinks (and therefore gain "acknowledgement") could be suffering from mental health issues for that alone. Excellent communication is almost always a requirement for successful relationships.

(September 4, 2019, 4:49 pm)Akhenaten

(September 4, 2019, 2:50 pm)123Throwaway If you feel like your sexuality is so tied to pregnancy fetishism that you fear the romantic needs of a relationship are unobtainable in the absence of indulging in it or mutual acknowledgement of it, consider finding psychological help, as this can be an actual, clinically significant issue.

To clarify, are you saying that people who feel they need "mutual acknowledgement" of the fetish could have mental health issues? I may be reading incorrectly. I don't see how a partner who wants to communicate kinks (and therefore gain "acknowledgement") could be suffering from mental health issues for that alone. Excellent communication is almost always a requirement for successful relationships.

Vague/bad writing on my part. When writing, I intended for mutual acknowledgement to be acknowledgement of a harmful sexuality where the fetish was necessary for gratification. One of those times when writing when you just trust your syntax is good but it isn't. Sorry lol

(September 4, 2019, 5:55 pm)123Throwaway Vague/bad writing on my part. When writing, I intended for mutual acknowledgement to be acknowledgement of a harmful sexuality where the fetish was necessary for gratification. One of those times when writing when you just trust your syntax is good but it isn't. Sorry lol

I got what you were saying, so it couldn't have been that badly worded. Unless that says something about me...

As someone who has been hot for pregnant women for decades, I think I bring a longer perspective than most. Many of you talk about fear of (or actual) disapproval from your classmates. Keep your mouth shut while you are in your teens; teenagers are the worst sex nazis on earth. Everything has to be just like they see it on screen or it's wrong. Bunk!

It becomes important to at least mention your desire while you are dating someone seriously, but maybe or not discuss it at length. You're with your girl and a nice-looking preggo walks by. Smile, react, but don't go crazy. Maybe she'll say something and the discussion begins. If she is ambivalent, it is fair to ask her the question: "What if we decide to have kids one day? Do you want me to think you're repulsive while you're pregnant? Not gonna happen." She might find that comforting. After all, it is 'truth in advertising' for husbandhood. If she still acts like it's strange or bad, be grateful for the lucky escape. Kick her to the curb and find someone better for you. 

Some of the members here have done that, bless 'em. I confess I did not. I didn't have the discussion with my GF early on. We got married and she freaked out when I wanted sex during her pregnancies. It was one of the biggest disappointments of my life. Oh, well... Now I have three fine sons, my wife is my ex, and I have not been ostracized from my family.

Ask yourself this: What kind a cruel joke would it be if you didn't want your partner anymore just when she needs you the most?

(September 13, 2019, 4:00 pm)jfingers As someone who has been hot for pregnant women for decades, I think I bring a longer perspective than most. Many of you talk about fear of (or actual) disapproval from your classmates. Keep your mouth shut while you are in your teens; teenagers are the worst sex nazis on earth. Everything has to be just like they see it on screen or it's wrong. Bunk! 

Fixed it for ya.  Teenagers tend to be hyper-judgmental about everything*: sex, race, religion, politics, socioeconomic status, what brand of clothing you wear, etc.  It isn’t until they hit their mid-20s or so and gain some life experience outside their parents’ petri dish that they truly start to gain some understanding and tolerance.  I would be curious to know, for those who had bad experiences telling their girlfriends, what age they/their girlfriends were.

* Source: I was once a teenager.