A reply  to another topic got me thinking, is there a certain look you except for a mom,  does it change in certain areas?  Where we live might be one of the top neighborhoods in the state.  Very upscale, white, alot of the moms are on basically a juice or water diet and so on.  And then there is my wife, Native American,  over 20 tattoos depending on how you count,  tongue and eye piercings.  She is a great mom who is the love of my life.  However there still is that stink eye from people, especially where we live.

No and yes. Since you're in an upper-class neighborhood, of course you're only going to see a certain type.

To only judge on the basis of looks isn’t something I do often, but it is nice to have someone closer to my ideal or intrigued me. Especially uniqueness in some form or fashion.

Some times I like the basic white girls, other times I don’t. Some times I go for someone a little bit nerdy, other times I go for a gym-freak. It all varies.

I feel like I’m after the sum of the whole instead of a specific feature about women. Everyone’s got great qualities yet also flaws as well. Seeing further than that is best, which is why you’re with your wife @alexnj . Then with fantasies and the fetish, you can get away with going for certain types like that since you can find them with a click of a button.

And yeah, people will always judge each other. It’s a part of being human. So being able to brush it off is best. The only person’s opinion that should matter to you is your own, and probably your wife’s as well lol. Snobs will stick up their nose when something stands out from the status-quo, must be a boring and shallow existence haha.