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bigblackman1994
Hey guys. So. I just need to say something that I think needs to be addressed (and I'm sure has been before).

First off... a lot of comments on here are really, REALLY creepy. Like regarding underage girls... I know we all appreciate bellies here, and pregnant women, but keep it... less creepy. I don't know what else to say. I can't think of the comments off the top of my head but, keep it classy.

And second, I have a friend who is female, but not pregnant, and is on Omegle, on the pregnant tag. We talk sometimes, and she always comments on how pushy guys are about getting a Kik/Skype, or something. If you're going to be on Omegle to try and get pictures, and talk to a pregnant woman, try and actually, you know. Hold a conversation first.

I really don't know what else to say. I understand it's a fetish not a lot of women have/understand, but being awkward and creepy about it doesn't help anyone's case. So for the sake of the rest of the belly-loving community, be better at it. Okay?
Liked by pacan1 (Nov 18, 2014)
Akhenaten
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I think for the most part, the posters on this forum represent some of the least-creepy members of the pregnancy fetish community. In other words, this is probably about as good as it gets. I like it here.

As for the guys who harass girls for pics? The anonymity of the internet makes normal people into total trolls and is, unfortunately, to be expected and anticipated -- especially from horny men. That's universal, doesn't just happen to pregnant girls, and in all actuality it probably happens to them less than it does to non-pregnant girls. The majority of guys think pregnant girls are disgusting whales who need to stay out of public. There's been a tiny bit of progress in that area what with all the stupid grocery-store gossip magazines obsessing over famous peoples' pregnancies, but I think that's more for women than men. In other words, no real change in attitude has taken place, and probably won't for some time since we're still so focused on nubile stick-women.

In any case, I can totally appreciate your sentiments. I resent assholes who make women uncomfortable. We'd all be much better off if they'd shut the fuck up and simply enjoy the show. I would wager, however, that the guys who comment on YouTube shit like "wow u got a hot belly i want 2 cum all over it k" -- most likely while masturbating -- get sexual gratification out of typing that and knowing the girl and everyone else will see it and can't really do anything about it. It's not just a matter of their being trolls... the degradation and catcalling is actually a significant part of what makes it good for them. So there's pretty much no chance in hell you'll see that stop.
pregphil
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It's a balancing act, but we do try to keep the "creepiness quotient" below a certain threshold without undermining discussions and comments. Posts which contain needless references to bodily fluids/functions and lacking in content are deleted. As for behaviour outside of the forum, unfortunately a disproportionate number of people with fetishes in general are pushy creeps.
johnnyverlander
there's some real creeps over on lovepregnant. not everyone by any means. but enough to make me not want to go to that site on a regular basis. this site isn't nearly as bad, thankfully
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Liked by Paradox (Jun 29, 2014), pregnantwomb (Jun 28, 2014)
Paradox
(June 28, 2014, 2:48 am)johnnyverlander there's some real creeps over on lovepregnant. not everyone by any means. but enough to make me not want to go to that site on a regular basis. this site isn't nearly as bad, thankfully

I've started avoiding Lovepregnant after some topics were deleted by one of the mods (not saying his/her name).
The top was the simple bellymovements during sex. After asking why it was taken down (if its against the rules or such) i got a simple: I'm a mod i dont have to answer anything.

That site had potential, but in my opinion it will fail eventually.
Akhenaten
(June 29, 2014, 1:31 am)Paradox
(June 28, 2014, 2:48 am)johnnyverlander there's some real creeps over on lovepregnant. not everyone by any means. but enough to make me not want to go to that site on a regular basis. this site isn't nearly as bad, thankfully

I've started avoiding Lovepregnant after some topics were deleted by one of the mods (not saying his/her name).
The top was the simple bellymovements during sex. After asking why it was taken down (if its against the rules or such) i got a simple: I'm a mod i dont have to answer anything.

That site had potential, but in my opinion it will fail eventually.

Damn, dude. I'll avoid that site pretty much forever if that's their attitude. Pathetic.
johnnyverlander
I feel like more than anything it's guys who think it's a dating site. And from the sound of it, a fair amount are teens without a clue or really stupid adults. Either way, I get second hand embarrassment looking through the forums on there very often
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Murble
I find it funny that this thread and the one about hooking up with pregnant women with such gems as "try a homeless shelter" and "get a girl pregnant" are right next to each other.

This site isn't really bad overall, and it's probably my favorite. But holy shit is my respect for women clashing with a lot of shit said here. I mean, it's a porn forum, so I guess it's to be expected. But shit, some of the stuff I see people say makes my skin crawl.
Paradox
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(June 29, 2014, 2:32 pm)Murble I find it funny that this thread and the one about hooking up with pregnant women with such gems as "try a homeless shelter" and "get a girl pregnant" are right next to each other.

This site isn't really bad overall, and it's probably my favorite. But holy shit is my respect for women clashing with a lot of shit said here. I mean, it's a porn forum, so I guess it's to be expected. But shit, some of the stuff I see people say makes my skin crawl.

Many men think its ok to think with their dick instead with their head.
Aside from the fact that many young teens do such (the thinking wrong thing) many others seem to see pregnant women only as sex objects instead of women who undergo a drastical change in their life right now.

Sure, some like the pregnancy and are even hotter via thus, but many concentrate on their future or just wanna enjoy that they'll soon have a child of their own. If people start hitting on those on Youtube with statements like "i wanna rub your belly with my ****" it's no surprise that "we" other people who like pregnant women, yet keep a respectful distance, are also lower rated cause we sadly get thrown into one pot with these morons.

I dont read that hookup topic cause i think its pointless since most women are either with boyfriend or husband anyway and (even if by little chance single) surely not interested in dating.
quasa2
I don't think so. I think if you are nice than they are nice to you and don't throw you in one pot^^.


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