(April 17, 2018, 5:44 pm)drummer4life39

(April 17, 2018, 5:38 pm)Akhenaten

(April 16, 2018, 7:36 pm)drummer4life39

(April 16, 2018, 6:23 pm)Akhenaten *raises hand*

I hate kids. And I have more than enough things to build/grow in my life without them.

Why do you hate kids? Wouldn't you want your future wife to be a surrogate mother?

I like my peace. Kids disrupt it. Pretty cut-and-dry.

Regarding the surrogate mother thing: if you're referring to the fact that a woman is typically not allowed to become a surrogate unless she's crapped out (and kept) one of her own first, that's still not a compelling enough reason. I really don't want kids. I wouldn't want to become a parent just so I can keep a woman's womb continually occupied for my personal jollies. I'm perfectly fine with porn, my imagination, and the occasional (albeit SUPER RARE) real-life encounter. And I'm also not into the whole "wife" thing.

No offense, but isn't that kind of a sad way to go through life?

If he doesn't want have kids, leave it at that. No need to pester him about it. It's his choice.

What could possibly be sad about not having to deal with the headache and wallet-ache of kids? I know myself, so I know that part of my happiness is attributable to the fact that I don't have them, as I would be much less happy if I did have them. And make no mistake, some people (more than you'd think) end up sorely regretting the decision to have children and wish they could hit Ctrl-Z. They can't admit that publicly of course because they'd be burned at the stake. I know such people and am thankful I didn't end up one of them. Society brainwashes everyone into thinking there's only one way to achieve happiness in life, but look a little deeper and you'll find that to be super duper damn untrue. Life is huge and vast. It doesn't fit in the tiny box we've been shown.

As it turns out, my life is filled with other elements that require time, attention, affection, nurturing, and development -- they're just not children. My cup runneth over without them, I assure you... I am a BUSY guy. Busy, but happy. Not religious at all, but thankful for every day of life! So definitely don't worry about me.

Maybe my statement regarding "porn, my imagination, and the occasional real-life encounter" was misunderstood? I do have healthy relationships with women. I like to be alone, but not THAT alone! Hah.

Well, I know about my fetish for a really long time. Like... since I was 11 or so. I got aroused by pregnant women and had the fantasy and dreams about having sex or just spending time home with them. But kids were always some sort of... scary money-draining annoying garbage or something to me, haha. If only there was a fetish dimension where the womb gets inflated by some sort of gas or liquid.

I love kids and think they're wonderful, they are the legacy we leave. That said, this fetish is completely separate from my desire to have children someday. For me it's just kind of convenient that my sexual desires will probably someday (hopefully not too soon) result in children.

Everyone has different outlooks on life and things that bring them happiness, not everyone is gonna be a fan of family life and that's ok!

I've got to raise my hand, also. Ten years ago or so, I'd have loved a child or two. Not now. It's too late as far as I'm concerned. I don't really want to go into personal details too much, but lets just say I feel rather 'cheated out' of the aspects prior to that.

I've got nothing against children as such, but my finances couldn't possibly support them with today's costs of childcare e.t.c... Having seen many friends have children over the last five years or so, I'm not entirely sure I'd have the patience for them also.

(April 16, 2018, 5:35 pm)belliesrlovely Just curious: who here only sees their fetish as just a fantasy and do not plan on having any children whatsoever?

That would be me, 100%.

In my case I discover the fetish after having my baby. I used to see pregnant girls cute but not like now. LOL. But I wouldn't become a surrogate or have any other kid. One is in off (I have no money and time to have more than one).

i'm childfree by choice. i've no desire to sire offspring, as much as i admire a nicely shaped pregnant lady.

This probably sounds really weird but I have tokophobia. Thats the fear of pregnancy and things related. Like I enjoy seeing bloated and round girls haopy with their body and life, but my idea of pregnancy beyond the fetish is so awful. I see pregnancy as so much unnecesary danger and pain, so when i see someone who is suffering in any way, I can't help but feel awful. Thats why i never want kids as well as a few other reasons like cost and patience. Adopting makes sense. Or getting a surrogate to carry my biological child. Theyre payed to be pregnant bc theyre good at it.

You know, I'm very sorry about this, but I think all of you guys are crazy or maybe just a little deluded. How could you love pregnancy and not love children? I had three kids and I would have been delighted to have seven more. I loved, Loved, LOVED knocked up Mom and the kids were the best thing in the world. They were and are the best thing I ever did in my life. 'Nuff said.

Would any of your older guys care to chime in on this?