So I recently started talking to a girl on tinder yesterday and she just told me she's 20 weeks pregnant but still would like to talk to me. I will definitely update if this great opportunity continues

UPDATE: she likes me and this is her second child. She's gonna be huge. I'll try and show pics after I meet her

Good luck!

So here's a quick update. She likes me and all but says she doesn't feel comfortable having sex while pregnant with another man's baby. Unfortunately I feel as if I have to just drop her. Let me know what you would do?

That depends. Do you feel you could develop romantic feelings for her? Or is it more about the sex? If it's mostly about the sex, it's probably best to respect her boundaries and move on. But if you continue chatting with her and something more develops, you should let her know that you aren't bothered by her pregnancy and see how things go from there.

See if you can convince her to change her mind or you can just take advantage of what you can get from her such as breast play and belly feels. Is she willing to do hand/blow jobs or is she telling you she is not comfortable doing any kind of sexual act while carrying another man’s child?

She has to understand that sex is a very important part of a relationship especially when a woman is pregnant which is when she is at her ultimate level of attractiveness and womanhood.

I can assume that as a preggophile you have no feelings for her beyond getting pregnant pussy so take what you can get out of her and let her go. If she’s worried about pleasing you sexually because she is carrying a baby made by someone else that’s a red flag which indicates she’s still emotionally attached to the father of her child.

Maybe all she wants from you is companion ship and a shoulder to cry. After the baby is born she’ll probably come up with another excuse for why she won’t let you fuck her.

If the relationship you envisioned is entirely on the basis of you having sex with her, drop it. It’s not going to work out. If you were looking for a relationship more than just sex, I’d suggest sticking around a bit. Just talk to her is all I can say

Well, your relationship isn't fleshed out and she's probably not comfortable with you. If there is a genuine sexual attraction, you two will probably get to it sooner than later, regardless of whether she's pregnant with another man's baby or not.

Most girls worth a damn won't sleep with someone immediately. If you think this is something worth pursuing, I'd stay at it.

I think I may just drop this one boys. I think she would definitely get big and stuff, but with knowing it will be hard to have sex with her I feel like I don't have the energy to stay around for 5 more months. I'll wait another 2 weeks and see if she shows a way of budging more twords it. I'm sure I can have sex with her but it'll be hard

(June 1, 2020, 1:12 am)WallsD I think I may just drop this one boys. I think she would definitely get big and stuff, but with knowing it will be hard to have sex with her I feel like I don't have the energy to stay around for 5 more months. I'll wait another 2 weeks and see if she shows a way of budging more twords it. I'm sure I can have sex with her but it'll be hard

That's probably best. @InflatoPreggo nailed it -- if you just want sex, you're definitely going to want to begin heading for the door on this one. I'm sorry it's going that way, but your needs and desires are valid and you owe it to yourself to see them fulfilled to the best of your abilities. And it'd be much better to just leave than to try to convince her to fuck you when she's made it clear she feels really weird about the whole thing. Personally, I would not date a woman who said she doesn't want sex because even though I'm demisexual and need a lot of time to be ready for sex, I do still totally fucking want sex at some point! To be told it's never going to happen would be a dealbreaker.