My girlfriend and I were thinking about me having sex with a pregnant women but we were worried about what might happen next. Do you think the relationship will stay the same or do you think this could cause problems in a relationship. I've never had sex with a pregnant women before, once you do does sex with a non pregnant women still compare? Also do you think my girlfriend will get self conscious that she wont be able to fulfill my fantasies. In short, do you think this is a good idea?

(April 12, 2019, 1:32 pm)tflanders My girlfriend and I were thinking about me having sex with a pregnant women but we were worried about what might happen next. Do you think the relationship will stay the same or do you think this could cause problems in a relationship. ... Also do you think my girlfriend will get self conscious that she wont be able to fulfill my fantasies. 

This depends on you, your girlfriend, and your relationship.  Was it her idea or yours?  If it was your idea, or if took any convincing her at all, you shouldn't do it.  If it was her idea, is she fucking crazy and trying to set a trap?  Would you feel guilty about it afterwards, and/or if you eventually marry your girlfriend would you regret the pregnant tryst you had, and/or even with consent would it be something she holds over you?  You know her better than we do so only you can answer these questions.

My wife and I both talk about and check out pregnant women a lot, and she wingmans me into belly rubs every now and then.  But while I've gently suggested a pregnant threesome in the past she's never been up for it, and I know she would never be cool with me outright cheating on her.  I also know that, even if I were to do it and she didn't find out, the guilt from it would eat me alive.

Quote:I've never had sex with a pregnant women before, once you do does sex with a non pregnant women still compare?

Does it compare?  Hell no, it doesn't compare.  Pregnant sex is one of those things that lives up to the hype and is better than non-pregnant sex in almost every regard.  But you can still enjoy non-pregnant sex if you're still attracted to the person you're banging and you're not too obsessed with big bellies.

Quote:In short, do you think this is a good idea?

Who knows?  If your girl is freaky but not batshit crazy, or if she's not wife material, then maybe?  But if there's a remote chance that you go long term with the GF then you'd better talk it out with her a LOT more, make sure you're picking up any non-verbal signals she's giving off, and make DAMN sure that if she says it's ok she means it and isn't just being passive aggressive.

If she's cool with it, figure out why she's cool with it. Is she interested in being polyamorous? There can be benefits to that lifestyle. I have experience there.

Nice idea. Who do you think will want to have sex with a guy that's already in a relationship? (I'm assuming you're looking for women here, not gay men.) What are the chances they'll be pregnant? How will you find this person without your coworkers, friends, or family members accidentally finding out about your open relationship and your fetish? Or when you said, "We're thinking about me having sex with a pregnant woman," was the plan to wait for a pregnant hottie to show up on your door step?

There are ways to find what he's looking for, and it's not as scandalous or troublesome as you might think. But it is going to be a challenge because finding the right pregnant woman for this isn't easy. An escort may work best.