just own it
im perverted who isnt
i like pregnant chick and ill lick your butthole too

To me it's not perversion but fine taste in women. True man appreciate the ripe curves of pregnant form.

Western culture, particularly American culture, is weird. If you're not 100% VANILLA MAN AND WOMAN IS THE ONLY WAY, you will be looked at funny. I know we're making strides regarding LGBTQetc rights, and BDSM is starting to gain wider acceptance as well, but the bottom line is that the world at large is still generally puritanical and backward. Human sexuality is extremely varied, and no one should be made to feel like a pervert for liking what they like.

That's not to say there aren't some real assholes out there who ruin things for everyone else -- but every variation of sexual interest has them. Straight vanilla land arguably has more assholes than any other, since men still stalk, abuse, and rape women for kicks.

   

If we're just talking about sexual deviation though, always remember that you can like what you like without being an asshole. That lands you in the blue circle. And there's nothing to feel proud of, nor ashamed of. It simply is. I don't feel guilty about my pregnancy fetish because I don't harass women (purple circle). It's how I've even been able to meet and have a few productive relationships with pregnant women.

But until society understands that being a fetishist does not equal guaranteed overlap with being an asshole (green center / red spot), you'll want to mostly keep your fetish to yourself. But for fuck sake, don't feel bad about it. There's no sense in that at all.

^ Very good post.

I`m pretty sure no one in my life eve had a clue about my preggo fetish and I don`t get it why anyone shoud. I don`t go down the street with my friends saying "Hey guys look at that preggo, thats a dish ha? wooo, hooo...!"

"Normal" guys usually don`t descant to everyone "Dude, I would kill for a big bouncy boobs!" so why should we?

I see no benefits in other people knowing your fetishes no matter how harmless the fetishes may be, no benefits at all. And once nobody knows, nobody can not mark you as a perv right?

I'm with motofoko on this. In general, your sexual preferances aren't going to be something you share like it's public domain. Very few people know I'm attracted to pregnant women, and they don't need to. My immediate family and one or two friends know, and that is it. Really if you are respectful and quiet, it doesn't hurt anyone. I don't feel bad that when I go to the grocery store and see a woman who is incredibly pregnant, I take a quick look. It's not like I stalk her through the isles staring at her, or immediately try to comment on her pregnancy. If conversations ever do come up, it's pretty standard to just give simple compliments like you look beautiful, or I like your outfit, it's cute. Pregnant women are like any other group of women, they aren't likely a fan of being hounded and stared at, and overt nasty comments (positive or negative) are rarely appreciated. Basically, it boils down to treating them respectfully and just being a decent person.

Even as a woman who has this fetish I feel creepy. As a preteen girl I had to hide photos of pregnant woman. In real life I used to feel very awkward seeing a belly like ashamed and blushing, but it was easier to probably not be visible or go into pretend "girlfriend" mode: congrats! I felt soo creepy thougg underneath (cause I am a woman I know what it feels like to be stared at etc.) It is a strange thing for sure

I don't know if it'll mean much, but I don't see it as being perverted. I'm pregnant right now, and sure I might not like belly rubs from complete strangers in Target (though if your cute that might change..), but just because you have a certain fetish doesn't mean I wouldn't talk/be friends with you. I honestly see it almost as being endearing to be honest. In my opinion, it's a crazy important part of a women's life, and you guys (talking in general) find it fascinating and that's awesome. So many time do I have to hear from my family and friends that it must be such a burden being pregnant. And I mean, yeah it could be sometimes, but I also enjoy it. Or try to at least. So yea, I don't think ya'll are perverts. You guys are all right in my book!

xoxo

(January 23, 2017, 6:53 pm)taylor0496 I don't know if it'll mean much, but I don't see it as being perverted. I'm pregnant right now, and sure I might not like belly rubs from complete strangers in Target (though if your cute that might change..), but just because you have a certain fetish doesn't mean I wouldn't talk/be friends with you. I honestly see it almost as being endearing to be honest. In my opinion, it's a crazy important part of a women's life, and you guys (talking in general) find it fascinating and that's awesome. So many time do I have to hear from my family and friends that it must be such a burden being pregnant. And I mean, yeah it could be sometimes, but I also enjoy it. Or try to at least. So yea, I don't think ya'll are perverts. You guys are all right in my book!

xoxo

I totally agree. It feels comforting to hear a pregnant woman say that. I know not ALL pregnant women are like this, but it's still nice to have it come from someone like you.