Friend is pregnant and I'm considering letting her live with me

MyandGoSeek · (156)

(February 7, 2024, 8:42 pm)Masterofpreggos Well the only thing i say here is nevera raise childs they are not yours only take care of your real blood

Blood doesn't define who your family is. The amount of love does. If he's willing to take care of the child as his own, then who are you to tell him not to?

Masterofpreggos · (672)

(February 7, 2024, 10:02 pm)MyandGoSeek
(February 7, 2024, 8:42 pm)Masterofpreggos Well the only thing i say here is nevera raise childs they are not yours only take care of your real blood

Blood doesn't define who your family is. The amount of love does. If he's willing to take care of the child as his own, then who are you to tell him not to?

Just Say this as a warning becouse i SEE this history a 100 times and never ends well

MyandGoSeek · (156)

(February 7, 2024, 10:52 pm)Masterofpreggos
(February 7, 2024, 10:02 pm)MyandGoSeek
(February 7, 2024, 8:42 pm)Masterofpreggos Well the only thing i say here is nevera raise childs they are not yours only take care of your real blood

Blood doesn't define who your family is. The amount of love does. If he's willing to take care of the child as his own, then who are you to tell him not to?
Just Say this as a warning becouse i SEE this history a 100 times and never ends well

And i SEE this history 1000 times and it ended well. Instead of being negative, just wish them the best of luck and move on. No one likes to be told no.

Akhenaten · (3432)

(February 7, 2024, 8:42 pm)Masterofpreggos Well the only thing i say here is nevera raise childs they are not yours only take care of your real blood

What a nasty thing to say. Do you know how many families you invalidate when you say that? Shame on you.

c1m9w94 · (8)

I think this is a wonderful idea and you are coming from a great place. Do research on tenancy laws in your state or country. It could be that if she stays a certain amount of time she becomes a tenant and cannot be evicted easily. If she turns out to have major unacceptable problems this could really fuck your life up. Again, not to say you aren't doing a super nice thing, and you know your own situation - just do the homework and protect yourself first. You don't know what the situation could turn into.