Better time to be bridesmaid Pregnant or New mom

[Thebige]

Have you ever been (or known a woman) who was a bridesmaid at either point? Which did you prefer? Don’t need answer fast.  

[Unreg_user]

I don't really understand the question.

[Thebige]

@"Way123" I meant “is it easier on a woman to be in a wedding pregnant or as new mom”

[Unreg_user]

@"Way123" I meant “is it easier on a  woman to be in a wedding pregnant or as  new mom”

Being in a wedding. You're going to be standing for less than an hour. Then you'll be sitting in a chair for the rest of the time. As a new mom you'll be up for several days taking care of an infant while suffering from the dreaded Postpartum period and sleepness nights.

[tonythepreggoPony]

There's some factors that need to come into play. Are you heavily pregnant or just a couple months? Are you a new mom to twins or just a singleton?

[Thebige]

Under these circumstances are you better off in the wedding party or guest (but spouse to party member)

1) 8 months pregnant
2) Breastfeeding a 10-month old

[tonythepreggoPony]

Under these circumstances are you better off in the wedding party or guest (but spouse to party member)

1) 8 months pregnant
2) Breastfeeding a 10-month old

I guess number two, although I've known pregnant women who were able to do almost any activity up until a day or two before delivery.

[Expectful]

Yes. I was best man at a wedding where the brides sister was the maid of honor and pregnant.

[Thebige]

@Expectful did the MOH have a noticeable bump?

[Expectful]

@Expectful did the MOH have a noticeable bump?

Yes, but not huge, plus she wasn’t all that attractive, but it was at least a small diversion