A bit of background: My boyfriend and I have known each other for over a year and a half due to being co-workers. We have now been dating for over a month and are extremely happy together. I guess the best relationships do come out of friendships! I just turned 21 and he just turned 23.
He is a future thinker like myself. He refers to me as his future wife and talks about what our children are going to look like. That alone turns me on.
So last night I decided it was time to tell him. I don't know what made me want to tell him so badly, I just felt like I would feel SO much better after telling him.
I told a previous boyfriend (whom I didn't tell until a year into our 2 year relationship) He did not react well at all. So telling my new boyfriend was so nerve wracking. He is such an accepting and open minded man that I was just dying to know what his thoughts were on having a girlfriend with a pregnancy fetish and how we could incorporate it into our sex life.
So here it goes.
"It really...turns me on when............i think about....being pregnant"
I can't begin to explain to you how confused he looked.
Silence.
More Silence
In reality he was probably only silent for 10 seconds but it felt like every second was a year. I was dying to know what he would say to that.
"Wait..so..." he said, "all those times we talked about having kids...this is what that was about?"
"I do want kids with you! Its just that the thought of you getting me pregnant is a huge turn on to me" I said.
" I want to be very clear. I would never get knocked up on purpose just to fulfill my fantasy. I just love the thought of being pregnant. I can't wait to be pregnant but I'm not stupid enough to get pregnant this young on purpose"
He was finally starting to digest it. I think he was afraid that I was going to stop taking my birth control on purpose or something. So when he realized that wasn't the case, i think there was some relief.
When the initial shock wore off of him he told me I would be a beautiful pregnant woman and especially with his children.
His face could have lit up the world after what I said next.
"Being pregnant would make me want to have sex ALL the time" BOOM. Happiest boyfriend in the world.
He told me he would love to have sex with me pregnant and how beautiful i would be. He said "when you get pregnant, never think you're not beautiful or that i wouldn't want to have sex with you because I definitely would"
AMEN. THIS CONVERSATION COULD ONLY BE BETTER IF HE SHARED THE FETISH.
He lifted up my shirt and started to kiss my belly. He knew exactly what he was doing to me. Then he gave me the kind of kiss that makes my heart skip a beat.
We then had the best sex I have ever had. My thoughts were now free. I could have my fantasy of me being pregnant and not feel ashamed of it. It was amazing guys. Amazing.
He is a future thinker like myself. He refers to me as his future wife and talks about what our children are going to look like. That alone turns me on.
So last night I decided it was time to tell him. I don't know what made me want to tell him so badly, I just felt like I would feel SO much better after telling him.
I told a previous boyfriend (whom I didn't tell until a year into our 2 year relationship) He did not react well at all. So telling my new boyfriend was so nerve wracking. He is such an accepting and open minded man that I was just dying to know what his thoughts were on having a girlfriend with a pregnancy fetish and how we could incorporate it into our sex life.
So here it goes.
"It really...turns me on when............i think about....being pregnant"
I can't begin to explain to you how confused he looked.
Silence.
More Silence
In reality he was probably only silent for 10 seconds but it felt like every second was a year. I was dying to know what he would say to that.
"Wait..so..." he said, "all those times we talked about having kids...this is what that was about?"
"I do want kids with you! Its just that the thought of you getting me pregnant is a huge turn on to me" I said.
" I want to be very clear. I would never get knocked up on purpose just to fulfill my fantasy. I just love the thought of being pregnant. I can't wait to be pregnant but I'm not stupid enough to get pregnant this young on purpose"
He was finally starting to digest it. I think he was afraid that I was going to stop taking my birth control on purpose or something. So when he realized that wasn't the case, i think there was some relief.
When the initial shock wore off of him he told me I would be a beautiful pregnant woman and especially with his children.
His face could have lit up the world after what I said next.
"Being pregnant would make me want to have sex ALL the time" BOOM. Happiest boyfriend in the world.
He told me he would love to have sex with me pregnant and how beautiful i would be. He said "when you get pregnant, never think you're not beautiful or that i wouldn't want to have sex with you because I definitely would"
AMEN. THIS CONVERSATION COULD ONLY BE BETTER IF HE SHARED THE FETISH.
He lifted up my shirt and started to kiss my belly. He knew exactly what he was doing to me. Then he gave me the kind of kiss that makes my heart skip a beat.
We then had the best sex I have ever had. My thoughts were now free. I could have my fantasy of me being pregnant and not feel ashamed of it. It was amazing guys. Amazing.