I am talking to a girl I met online that wants to get pregnant. It would be just be a "one day thing". I wouldn't have anything to do with her or the child, but she really wants a baby and has no man to give her one. She is 29 and has a good job and can adequately provide for the child. Should I help this woman out and get her pregnant? I want to hear your advice.

Please answer the poll and reply any advice.

Absolutely not, she could force you to take a paternity test a year from now and force you to pay child support. Plus, you should only have children with a woman you love.

I know someone who did that for a friend. Years later her lover left her and she came back to get him for child support. Not only that she raised the child to think her father wanted nothing to do with her. Said child despises her father and won't listen to the truth. Think about it, would you? Your father hasn't been there your entire life then one day he appears out of nowhere claiming your mother kept him away. Kinda suspect don't you think?

You can go ahead and do it if you want but know that there's nothing but drama and heartache down that path. It's best to leave innocent children out of this. Tell her to go to a sperm bank if she wants a child so badly.

I am a skeptical person, so i'd say no to this.

1. Even if this woman says she want to take care of it herself (meaning she wont suit you on child support), unless you get a lawproof kind of agreement i would be cautios here.
- She could be lying (which at least you doubt)
- In 10 Years she could have lost her job and come back at you (broke people often do things they promised not to, just to keep their head above the water

2. What about the child? Think about the fact that one day in 15 years you might have a teen standing in your doorway. "Hi dad..."...

I hear you guys. The reason I ask is because I really wasn't sure. It has always been a dream of mine to get a girl pregnant, and with the luck I have with women, I have always felt that it would never happen. I thought this might be my only chance to impregnate a woman. Plus I do want to help this woman, too.

I probably won't end up doing it, but I still want to hear everyone's opinion. I am grateful for all of the advice. I didn't think it would be a unanimous decision: I thought some of you pregnant lovers would want me to get a girl pregnant!

(April 26, 2015, 3:37 pm)lovepreggies I thought some of you pregnant lovers would want me to get a girl pregnant!

We love pregnant women and their bellies, but what you're asking is really something entirely different... and I think you know that.

I know that, I just figured more people would be in favor of me helping this girl out.

As much as we all like preggos, the risks (18+yrs raising kid and untold financial costs over that time) outweigh the gain. Save the experience for the girl you settle down with and get to enjoy it. The worst part of this fetish is the fact that pregnancy is fleeting. Makes acting out your desires difficult and reliant on others unfortunate/unplanned situations.

The problem is, 20something-guy, that I don't plan to settle down. I am in law school and when I get out I will be working 12 hour days 6 days a week. I won't have time for a family. Plus I have a form of social autism that makes relationships almost impossible.

I know where you're coming from, I also have a form of autism that makes social interaction difficult. I don't know what you have, but I have aspergers, which makes emotional connection piratically impossible, and holding a conversation a challenge unless on a topic that interests me. Yet, albeit it only lasted 2 weeks (long story), I was able to get into a relationship with a girl (and I don't know for sure, but I think she might of had a pregnancy fetish too). Now I'm still single today, and I haven't come any where close to having another relationship since her, but I believe that if it happened once it can happen again, so don't give up! I hope I gave you something to relate to, even if just a little bit.