So, I turned 41 this year, married for only 3 years, wife is awesome but doesn't really understand my kink for pregnancy, so I don't think she'd play along. 

Last time I got to engage with the kink was with my son's mother like sixteen years ago. I'd like to engage with it again, but I just don't see it happening, so I started to wonder: Has anyone else felt like this after reaching a certain age?

It's actually gotten EASIER for me as I've aged. I chose to be polyamorous some years ago, which presents me with options.

The idea of hall passes has crossed my mind, but I think I'm also having issues just having this fetish at my age. I'm going through a mental health thing right now anyway. And I highly doubt the wife would be cool with me just wanting to go casual with a pregnant woman just to "scratch the itch".

It's complicated for me for a lot of reasons. But thank you for the comment.

I saw that you're only a few years younger than me. I wonder if hitting my 40s is just that much of a thing. I'm not really feeling old, just getting older. It kinda sucks.

(May 30, 2022, 9:23 am)Yancey81 The idea of hall passes has crossed my mind, but I think I'm also having issues just having this fetish at my age. I'm going through a mental health thing right now anyway. And I highly doubt the wife would be cool with me just wanting to go casual with a pregnant woman just to "scratch the itch".

It's complicated for me for a lot of reasons. But thank you for the comment.

I saw that you're only a few years younger than me. I wonder if hitting my 40s is just that much of a thing. I'm not really feeling old, just getting older. It kinda sucks.

Yeah... if that's not how your relationship is arranged, then it's unlikely to work for you. People understandably don't appreciate such a change most of the time.

And yes, getting older is... weird. Because while I don't feel old in a vacuum, I feel old when I encounter younger people. Things are advancing and I'm not sure what to think about it. I should probably be more interested in women my age, but I still really love young women (and they seem to like me too, at least sometimes), so... you know what, life is short and I'm just going to happily run with it. Why the hell not?

I understand what you mean. I am just shy of 42 and your view of things changes. You start to be aware you are older. Like people in your general friends groups are not getting pregnant anymore, so the opportunities for un-assuming belly rubs and whatnot are no longer present.

I’m from the class of 1977. At 44 I’m probably one of the oldest people in this community. I’ll be 45 in November. I happen to be one of those lucky people who won the genetic lottery. The physical condition of my body is 10 years younger which puts me at 34.

I don’t think getting older has any effect on my interest in the fetish. What I have learned is my range of kinks has expanded. When I became a member of this website almost 10 years ago I did not consider certain aspects of pregnancy to be part of my fetish.

My thinking has changed a lot over the years but I will never get to the point of feeling like I am too old for the fetish. It doesn’t matter that women my age can’t get pregnant. I’ll continue to look at women who are in breeding condition.

If this website is around 20 years from now I’ll still be here. Of course everyone is unique and some people do indeed lose interest in certain things as they get older. Aging out of the fetish is something I hope never happens to me because I enjoy it so much.

(May 31, 2022, 2:00 pm)LSeymour I understand what you mean.  I am just shy of 42 and your view of things changes.  You start to be aware you are older.  Like people in your general friends groups are not getting pregnant anymore, so the opportunities for un-assuming belly rubs and whatnot are no longer present.

It's been really hard for me, because part of me wants to have another kid, one with my current wife whom I love very much. She's in her late 30s and says she's done. I'm bummed. I don't feel too old for that, but she's the one taking all the risks and I respect that. But I've only recently realized how important that was to me, and wondering now if it should have been a deal breaker? I dunno.

I'm not confident I could convince her to let us try a threesome, or a hall pass, or even get her to pretend. She's accepting, I think, but not understanding, at least not much.

I don't think my kink is going anywhere, but it looks like I've got to tone it down. Sad and funny at the same time, I'd really just like to get it on with a pregnant girl once more, I guess.

(May 31, 2022, 3:52 pm)Yancey81 I don't think my kink is going anywhere, but it looks like I've got to tone it down. Sad and funny at the same time, I'd really just like to get it on with a pregnant girl once more, I guess.

You only live once. If it's that important to you, it's worth having a conversation about it.

I'm making a lot of assumptions, I guess. I'm careful not to get into relationships where I would feel uncomfortable talking about stuff like this, or making requests around it. I know how very important it is to my sexuality and my happiness, so I force myself to make room for it. Does that eliminate some potential partners? Sure does. But I know I'd feel suffocated with them, and that I'd be lying both to myself and to them about if I was feeling fulfilled. I'd never cheat, but I'd probably spend a lot of time feeling resentful for being held back. That's just me, though.

I'm 28, I have been attracted to pregnant women since I first discovered internet porn at whatever age that was. I've been in a relationship for approx 4 years now.
I am going to be straight up honest here guys,
Ive looked at adultwork, a website where you can hire escorts. I haven't done so yet.
Around 2 years into my relationship with her, i was alone travelling, i was in rotterdam. I went to a massage parlour, I've kept it to myself, I can honestly see me going and fuckin some pregnant escort one day.

Let me tell you, guys, the issue goes on forever. I'm 70 and still love the fetish, but the only way I can engage with it is via content on here or, if I care to try it, sex workers. I have seen some people here declare that they are done with it all and walk away, but they always come back. My best advice on the subject is to relax and enjoy it. The love of pregnant women will likely be with you for the rest of your life.