My retainer broke so I had to go and get another made. I've been seeing this beautiful blonde orthodontist for years now since I was in highschool. Its been abut 7 months or so since the last time I saw her. When she walks into the room I see her scrubs are stretched a little bit. I was suprised to see a medium sized belly on her. She comes in to examine my teeth bumping me with her beautiful little bump. I get to see her again in a month so she'll likely be even bigger. God I love pregnant women. If her baby starts to kick how should I ask to feel without being creepy next visit?


On a side note:
I get so aroused when I see that of course but I also feel some sadness and jealousy. I wonder if I'll ever get my life together in time to experience that with a woman? I have so many problems I'm not sure I can even fix.

Try asking politely, something along the lines of 'Hey, I had a family member who was pregnant, it's cool when the baby kicks, would it be ok to feel for a second if the baby kicks?' Otherwise, I wouldn't ask, it's her body. If she says no, do not push it, do not ask again.

On your side note. Work on yourself then, if you feel there are some problems you can't fix on your own, see a therapist, work on it. Sometimes in life we don't get to take the paths others get and there's not reason to be sad or (especially so) jealous. Being jealous of someone else's life will only leave you more and more bitter and less able to find happiness in your own life.

I had an pregnant dentist working on my mouth over year a go. She came across on tinder too but only now after having the baby, unfortunately no like for me.

I wouldn't ask to feel. I'd leave it alone entirely. If you're going to do anything at all, you might ask if the baby is kicking yet, and if so, is it kicking now -- and that's her opportunity to offer to let you feel. You do not ask to feel.

Turns out shes almost due. Wow shes pretty small for 9 months. She is due in April. She is the skinny type so I guess she wouldn't get very big. I thought she was 6-7 months. I may not get to see her again after all.

That's how those thing happen. Hey, be glad you got to see her at least once during her special time.