Hey everyone,

Im a long time lurker on here. I have always been into niche fetishes since I began masturbating (pregnancy is the main one) and its becoming more and more clear that I'm addicted to watching fetish porn. I rarely watch regular porn (maybe once a week) and it doesn't really turn me on the way this stuff does. And I exclusively masturbated to fetish material for like the first 4 years of masturbating.  I keep telling myself I want to quit watching fetish porn or at least cut back but I literally can't.

I'm a young adult who wants to just be in a normal relationship and have vanilla sex and am afraid that this fetish will prevent me from that. Im a good looking dude who has had many opportunities to pursue good looking women but don't in fear of this issue. I see a lot of member treating this fetish like it's the most important aspect of their lives but im on the total opposite. I could care less if I ever have sex with a pregnant women. I just want to be in a normal relationship and be turned on by vanilla sex. 

Well I guess im just venting at this point. All this shit is really starting to tear me down. Anyone have any advice on this? Anyone else in the same situation or have been before? Any success stories about living a normal sex/romantic life with this fetish? 

Well thanks everyone.

I've had issues before, not currently in a relationship but I was in one a few months ago and my partner was very accommodating about my fetish even though she didn't share it. However, it was often difficult for me to finish if she wasn't actively triggering my fetish with roleplay or a foodbaby or something (still, I could sometimes get off without that kind of play).

Have you tried masturbating less? Like not some no-fap bs, but temporarily stopping for a week or two then going back to it with a different hand technique and different porn. It's a good diagnostic exercise if anything else, and I've found the build up of libido helps me be less picky.

Sometimes you gotta take breaks or limit your exposure. Maybe try not to come here anymore or as much. When it starts to interfere with your life it's best to take a step back and give it a rest for a bit. I agree though that fetish porn, when you find the thing that does it for you, just makes everything else, everything else.

Mate, if the fetish is messing with your head as much as you say to the point you feel like you can't function normally I suggest you distance yourself from it for a while. If that doesn't help maybe considering leaving it alone permanently. The fetish has never interfered with my "normal" life mostly because it is simply something I enjoy consuming as needed. Indeed I am one of those guys who value having sex with a pregnant woman over having sex with a non-pregnant woman however it doesn't mean I can't enjoy a non-pregnant woman because, after all, tits, ass, and pussy are what is important. If she looks good and is my type I'll get off regardless if she is pregnant or not. As a young adult, you have plenty of time to figure out which way you are going to go. This issue is pretty much all mental thus changing the way you perceive pregnancy will help a lot. I wish you all the best mate and as always have fun and stay safe.

At this point I can safely say that I'm addicted to softcore fetish-porn, I have like 400gb of porn on my server that I do not intend on letting go. I fap more than 3 times a day. Despite these facts I'm okay with that, I don't feel like in impede on my life, I work 40 hour shifts just fine. I do other responsibilities like paying bills, loans, and other expenses just fine. I go outside whenever I can, I do my best to take care of myself. As any other reasonable person will point out if something like porn is interfering with your day-to-day life you need stop indulging in it. There's plenty of groups in support of porn addicts, I say go talk to them and see where things go.

I think being able to enjoy porn and being able to enjoy sex are 2 different things. I almost exclusively watch fetish porn, but have no problem having vanilla sex with my wife. (I think if I'm watching other people do it, I want to see something besides just P and V) Sex to me is always a situational read. Sometimes vanilla does the trick, orher times you have to go grand. It sounds to me like you haven't tried to hook up because you think your fetish will get in the way. A good test would be to try to head to an adult theater that attracts couples. Offer to have sex with one of the women there. That will probably give you a good test as you will be having vanilla sex in a kind of fetish environment.