I’ve recently been struggling with my interests and whether using this site, (as well as others) is really an ok thing to do. This is clearly a place of Adult Content… but is it pornography? As a father and husband I’m somewhat concerned about my usage of these sites, obviously this isn’t exactly the place to “vent”, but I do want to know if anyone else here has the same experience?

Honestly if you're that concerned about being on here then either limit your time on the site or go ahead and delete your account.

(June 20, 2023, 1:31 am)BobbyB

(June 20, 2023, 12:22 am)Glittering_You330 Honestly if you're that concerned about being on here then either limit your time on the site or go ahead and delete your account.

What is the video called that you got your profile pic from?

Dude, don't hijack someone else's thread just to ask me a question.

Not trying to, I sent you a PM but no reply from you

(June 20, 2023, 5:40 pm)BobbyB Not trying to, I sent you a PM but no reply from you

You're wasting your time with Glittering_You, he's kind of a gigantic jerk.


Going back to the OP: You're asking a rather subjective question, the most driving element behind it being if you consider adult content/pornography to be bad. There's both on here, make no mistake. If you are feeling guilty because of that, it comes down to a rather simple choice: Do you feel bad enough about it that you don't want anything to do with it? Or is it something you enjoy enough to where you want to keep returning to it?

No wrong answer, honestly, just takes some self-analysis. Best wishes, whatever decision you come to.

(June 20, 2023, 11:53 pm)Ran

(June 20, 2023, 5:40 pm)BobbyB Not trying to, I sent you a PM but no reply from you

You're wasting your time with Glittering_You, he's kind of a gigantic jerk.

God forbid I don't answer a PM. If I don't respond to you, then it means I don't want to talk. Take a hint and move on.

And stop trying to start shit in someone else's thread.

I have two answers for you, so just go with the one you like better.

#1 is of the "follow your heart" variety. You've already answered your own question by stating that your sense of morals makes you uncomfortable enough to ask yourself if you should be here deriving gratification from pornographic (and yes, it is pornographic) content. If you live in a world where that's a no-no, then it's time to hang it up and leave this community.

#2 is my personal take. I believe that entire line of thinking is a huge load of horse shit. Kinks and fetishes are usually out of our control, and denying them makes no sense whatsoever (with exceptions for things like child abuse, situations where a person is incapable of giving consent, etc. - you know, the usual). Life is SO EXTREMELY SHORT and if something brings you pleasure without introducing pain into the world, why the fuck would you not live that up? But hey, if you've made a promise to someone that you won't jerk it to pregnant ladies, you'd best keep your promise, dumb as it is. Gratification is not immoral. Piety is overrated. This is just my opinion, like my favorite color being red, so please don't take personal offense if it doesn't match your way of thinking.

I very much have a similar mindset as Akhenaten on this one...

If you feel uncomfortable being here, then it's probably for the best to at very least take a break away from here. If you remain happy and not really thinking about this place during any 'sabbatical', then that would be the point I would call it a day and make it permanent. I've found myself doing this with one particular forum (non-pregnancy related) over the last 14/15 months where I did recently request my account to be finally closed after being absent for almost an entire year. I certainly wouldn't recommend any 'knee-jerk' approach and, in my humble opinion, this would be the best way of doing that. Obviously at the end of the day, the choice is yours.

I personally keep the pregnancy fetish much to myself - so anyone who knows me knows nothing of this place. I'm very much a private person when it comes to these sorts of things but that's easy for me to say because I don't have a wife or children - so I totally respect and appreciate your own situation is somewhat different. Would I finally leave this place if I was in a similar position of at least having a girlfriend or wife? Hmmm....I think it all would depend on how open my partner was to fetishes and how much I liked her. It would absolutely be an option but given this place (and the pregnancy fetish in general) has been to me over the years, I would find it incredibly difficult to fully leave.

I find that this site is, in general, much more about positivity and sharing a "fascination" with femininity and fertility than just porn.

For example, this conversation wouldn't happen on another site. There is also far less of the, "raw dog that ho," type of content.

Thanks for replying everyone! I feel your advice was very helpful, as such I’ll be sticking around ❤️