(May 9, 2018, 3:39 am)AquaL Why not, you know, date a girl, marry her and then knock her up,

He's only 21. It could be another ten years before he's ready to do that. Also, who wants to marry just to fuck a pregnant woman? I don't think "marriage and kids" is a reasonable answer to the question "How do I deal with the fact that there are so few ways to actualize my desire for pregnant women?"

It's already relatively hard to find casual encounters in the US. Many women specifically say that's not what they want on their online dating profiles, for instance. Forget about asking a girl in a bar if she's interested in being your FWB. Personally, I think this is a bit strange, but I see no signs of it changing immanently. Add to that the fact that most pregnant women are married (and those that aren't tend to belong to one social class, which means those of us that aren't don't have many opportunities to meet them) and it makes a lot of sense that we're frustrated and only rarely get to actualize our desire for pregnant women. But take it from me, if what you want is to fuck women in general (not just pregnant ones), it's still pretty random and not something where you can just point and click.

I will say I'm also considering trying to dial back this fetish. The content seems to be harder to come by, whether it's actual porn or even content posted publically. The loss of craigslist didn't seem to be a good sign either.

(May 9, 2018, 2:40 am)Anonymouspreg TL;DR If I fap to preg related content often enough, it might become the only thing I can get off on.

There are sex therapists for that sort of thing. So still something that you could talk to a therapist about.

But you're young still, and tastes change and mature all the time. Lurk around the internet long enough and you'll be surprised what you can get accustomed to getting off to.

I've jerked it to all sorts weird things, and still manage to enjoy vanilla sex with my partner on a regular basis. I've also developed somewhat of a fetish for eating out my partner. Something i've done countless times over the past several decades, but before the past year or so it was just something I did to return the favor, or as foreplay for the main event. But only recently it's something I've come to enjoy and fixate on during sex. When I was in my 20's I was very much a boobman, but now pushing 40, I'm more of an assman.

My point is, you don't know what you might be into in the future. Often a person's sexual experiences going forward are what shapes much of their interests. While much is seeded in the sexual awakening of the teen years, things are always evolving and changing. I didn't even really have an interest in pregnant sex until my partner got pregnant for the first time, now it's one of my top kinks.

Just don't overthink it, your likely just causing yourself more stress than you need. Fapping should be about relieving stress, not causing it. Also, if push comes to shove, there is no shame in talking to a therapist if it does become a problem.

(May 9, 2018, 3:39 am)AquaL Why not, you know, date a girl, marry her and then knock her up,

There's more to life than just reproducing for the sake of controlling a fetish.

(May 9, 2018, 9:38 am)Pharaoh170 It's already relatively hard to find casual encounters in the US. Many women specifically say that's not what they want on their online dating profiles, for instance.

A tangent, but that's often just virtue signalling and purely for appearances. Women are horny too, but society generally punishes them for being open about their sexual desires. Men, on the other hand, are expected to act out and are in fact rewarded for it -- though that's changing a little now. Slowly.

(May 9, 2018, 3:39 am)AquaL Why not, you know, date a girl, marry her and then knock her up,

Why not, you know, read through the entire fuckin post before you come at me with that smart ass type remark,

It's a fetish, it's meant to be enjoyed for a small slice of a time when you've got the time to enjoy it. Whether that be through media or actual interactions with a person that will fit that fetish is neither here nor there. It's how you control the time you put into it. I come to this site when I've got the down time to admire pregnant women, I don't get a 'jonsing' for a look at pregnancy. If your fetish does start controlling aspects of your life (ex. you start devoting too much time to it that it impacts other things in life, you start only looking at women as objects to fulfil your fetish, etc) then it is time to step away, find something else not related to sex or whatever in anyway or see a therapist about it.

To me, a fetish is like alcohol, fun in small doses, but don't let it control your life and don't get jealous if others can imbibe in better stuff then what you've got. Enjoy what you can get and be thankful it's all there.

All I will say is that it’s worth the wait. I was never intimate with a pregnant woman until my wife got pregnant, and it wasn’t one of those things that you fantasize about but fear that it won’t live up to expectations. The best sex of our lives happened during my wife’s three pregnancies.

I also actually kind of like the fact that it’s temporary. I mean, sure, I wish my wife could be nine months preggo forever, but think about it this way... I love big boobs, and I wish my wife had bigger natural boobs (e.g. E-F or larger), but she doesn’t. And that’s not something that will ever change - she will never have big naturals. When we got married, I wished she had a big pregnant belly. She didn’t at the time, but there was always the possibility of her having one at some point. And then she did, and once the first one was over there was the hope of a second time, etc.

Also, my wife is cool with the fact that I get “pregnant crushes” on female friends of ours that get pregnant. They are not threatening to my wife because my attraction to these other women is inherently temporary - I have no special interest in them once they’re not pregnant.

So maybe trawling the Internet looking for pregnant action isn’t worth it, but the real thing with a lifetime partner is. It’s all about how you practice the fetish and how much a part of your life it is.