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Is any of this even worth it anymore?
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Anonymouspreg
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Recently I've been contemplating the idea of just how temporary this fetish is in comparison to the rest of my life. Some days I genuinely consider rather or not it's worth it to continue visiting this site honestly, I simultaneously wonder if others here are feeling the same way about it. It's important to note that I'm biased as a 21 year old with basically his entire life ahead of him. With that said, the way I see it as of recently, escorts are both reasonably expensive and hard to come by, even harder after back pages went down, and from what I've read from a couple other posts in this subsection, as well as some real life observations, it's right next to impossible to score some action with any female past her 8th week of gestation. What seems to be 9 out of every 10 single expecting moms gets her perception of men so skewed during the split that she goes on a dating hiatus of sorts till she pops, and the 10th woman of the bunch is willing to mingle, but only out of pure desperation because she already has 2, even 3 other kids to take care of. And on the rare instance you do manage to score a fling, her family catches onto the fact that you're there because she's pregnant and they begin to talk about it, her friends talk about it, and god forbid this cycle happens with multiple women in the same town. Escorts: Rare, often far away and almost always expensive.
Singles: Self consciosus, paranoid, hormonal, in over their heads with responsibilities and finances. Im also noticing a shift in the video culture on this site too, where it used to be a private, collective community of content being shared, DCMA and Google Drive has dwindled away all of the "good" content on these sites, and if you're anything like me, not a lot of what's left has a very long shelf life so it's a regular occurrence these days to browse multiple sites for new content without any luck. Too many members here adhere to a strictly trade only policy with their content, respectfully so too, they can afford it, but this definitely makes me steer away from the fetish even more because this habit is not worth my money at my current point in life. All of the info stated above feeds into my thoughts about how all this effort just for a 9 month max period of tradeoff just isn't worth it at my age. Can anyone else relate?
Liked by ph_anonynous (Nov 13, 2021)
tomostrife
Leave it dude. Escorts, single moms, youre playing a field that unbalanced. Too many guys on here spend too much effort and time trying to get with a preggo. Its just not worth your time. If youre on the fence, take it from someone whos been here far too long, leave it behind. Seek REAL girls, for REAL relationships, not kinky flings.
Liked by AquaL (May 9, 2018), Fuckthisplace (May 9, 2018)
TacoTamale
If you feel like trying to hit on every pregnant woman that you see isn't the life for you, then by all means it's time for you to let go. A fetish doesn't stay with you for life. People outgrow habits all the time, and pregnancy fetish is no different. And like you said, you have your entire life ahead of you, so you honestly don't want to waste it trying to satisfy a kink that you hardly have interest in anymore.

And to be honest, no you're not the only one who's debating on if this is worth it. While there are many here who will continue to chase after pregnant women for the rest of their days, there are some including myself who would hopefully one day settle down and form a relationship that doesn't involve pregnancy at all.

But to cut my speech short; If you feel like this whole fetish isn't worth it anymore, then cut it from your life. You'll feel a whole lot better and you can continue to move on with your life.
Liked by Soundlevel (May 9, 2018), Fuckthisplace (May 9, 2018)
Fredricton
Why does a fetish have to dictate your whole life? Can't you just rub one out to some pregnant pictures when alone and still go out and date normal women?

I honestly think you should talk to someone other than a bunch of randoms on the internet. I know shrinks can cost more than the pregnant escorts, but if you feel that any fetish is such a driving force in your life, that you need to cut it from your life 100%, to lead a normal life, than you should be talking to a professional about it. Walking away from anything that has that kind of effect on your life is easier said than done.
Liked by alexgraves (May 9, 2018), Akhenaten (May 9, 2018)
Akhenaten
I'm going to keep my ear to the ground in case there's ever an opportunity to do something with a sane pregnant woman, but making it my life's mission to hook up with one is nonsense. And like Fredricton said, just enjoy it for what it is -- rub one out to pictures or videos of an attractive pregnant woman when the mood strikes. Life's short and that brings some temporary enjoyment, so why not?
Liked by alexgraves (May 9, 2018)
orta03
I used to fantasize about be intimate relationships with pregnant women too. Then, I realized that they tend to come with a lot of emotional baggage(father of the baby is the usual deadbeat bad boy women love). Not to mention, having to worry about catching an STD given that western women are very promiscuous nowadays and the luster of that kind of encounter fell off quick. Now, I'm quite content to enjoy this fetish just with pics and videos. Instagram, youtube, video sites(Manyvids, clips4sale) and cam models sites provide a virtually infinite supply of pregnancy content, so content is always fresh. If you can hang in there and allow that desire to pass, you can still very much enjoy this fetish. If that proves to be too difficult, then by all means take a step a back and focus on other things in your life.
Liked by Akhenaten (May 9, 2018)
Fuckthisplace
I say take a break from this site and pregnant porn in general for a while and find other hobbies to occupy your time. If you come back and feel enticed by pregnant women, then great. If not, then great too.
Liked by alexgraves (May 9, 2018)
Anonymouspreg
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(May 9, 2018, 12:59 am)Fredricton Why does a fetish have to dictate your whole life? Can't you just rub one out to some pregnant pictures when alone and still go out and date normal women?

To be fair this little kink of mine is just that, a simple kink and not a full blown life driving force haha definitely nothing I need to see a shrink for. While your point is valid, I can stick to fapping to the content here, but that's part of the issue in my opinion. Historically when I get a fap urge, that's been my go to, but the problem occurs in the fact that it's become my only go to of sorts. Some days I feel like it's the only type of erotic material that makes me click, which worries me when it comes to encountering real life, regular women that aren't just temporary flings.

TL;DR If I fap to preg related content often enough, it might become the only thing I can get off on.
alexgraves
Generally speaking I think it's unhealthy to let anything dictate your life if you can't be 100% committed to it and be open/honest about it. Being deadset on a particular kind of sexual conquest (related to maesiophilia or not) doesn't seem like a very fulfilling way to live life. Unless you're comfortable with talking to a lot of people very openly about what you want it really seems unlikely that you'd get what you want.

If taking a break from this site among other things helps give you some perspective, I'd say go for it. We're about the same age and I agree, it's really not a big part of my life. I just happen to find pregnancy really sexy, there's a hell of a lot more to me than this kink. My personal policy is to let it take the backdrop of my life; if the opportunity presents itself sure. I prefer to think of it as an added bonus if in the future I decide to start a family, not a detriment.

If you can "give up" the fetish, well more power to ya! If you can't change something about yourself though, you can still change how you frame it but that takes introspection. If you can't change the what, change the how.
AquaL
Why not, you know, date a girl, marry her and then knock her up,
Liked by rustywrench (May 12, 2018)

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