(November 1, 2021, 8:33 pm)big_carl72

(October 30, 2021, 7:58 am)laurelindoriath The more casual and "normal" you act about it, the less awkward it will be.  If you act like it's a huge embarrassing secret, then people will treat it that way.

By why the urgent need to share?  Keep it between partners, not much profit in sharing those details unless you are flirting.

Because I am a chronic oversharer and am possessed with this stupid unshakeable belief that if I don't tell you EVER SINGLE DETAIL you won't fully understand the situation like I do.  And since I know it is suicide to share with the people in my life, here I am.

case in point, this reply.

That and I don't trust myself to not overshare as I approach said female haha.

I TOTALLY feel your pain! I’m an oversharer , particularly on Facebook

weird. from my experience i can tell: never tell anyone... i never did, but i know society.

friend of mine told me, he hooks up regularly with chicks from internet, one told him shes crazy about his knees.

i was like: ...weird Oo

his knees are ugly as fucc.

It's certainly one of those fetishes which, publicly at least, remains very much misunderstood thanks to a distinct minority of unsavoury characters (posting certain comments best left unsaid) and not generally accepted for what it basically is. It's something you either have to quietly find people who also share the pregnancy fetish - such as this place, or basically spend a lifetime keeping to yourself. I can't foresee that situation changing. 

I've never personally discussed this fetish outside of one of three specific forums - this being one of them. I've never once discussed this out aloud to anyone face to face and as I just said, it's a situation which I can't see changing at all. I'd have to find a partner with a similar interest and I know the realistic chances of that are slim. I wouldn't even know how to get onto the subject without it sounding incredibly awkward which, of course, could backfire. I really don't know how I'd react if anyone who knew me face to face knew I had this fetish or posted here. I'm quite a private person in real life so keeping secrets isn't difficult for me.

(November 7, 2021, 12:55 pm)Belly Button I'd have to find a partner with a similar interest and I know the realistic chances of that are slim.

I used to think that as well, but there are almost no women on the same page with us about this, so... fuck, you know? The trick is to find kink-positive women who aren't going to judge because they've got their own weird things, as well. They probably won't be into this, but at least it won't have to be a secret anymore.

(October 29, 2021, 10:32 pm)big_carl72 And then to top if off; I can't complain to anyone else I know because I tried revealing to a group of friends once that I found pregnant bellies sexy, and learned to never do that again.

Really? Well, I've never told a group of people, but I've told certain of my friends. Most of them have basically been "well, I don't get it, but if it's what you are into then it's good" I was even told by another woman that she found it "cute"

(November 11, 2021, 7:27 pm)Dr. Preggo

(October 29, 2021, 10:32 pm)big_carl72 And then to top if off; I can't complain to anyone else I know because I tried revealing to a group of friends once that I found pregnant bellies sexy, and learned to never do that again.

Really? Well, I've never told a group of people, but I've told certain of my friends. Most of them have basically been "well, I don't get it, but if it's what you are into then it's good" I was even told by another woman that she found it "cute"

The 2 times anyone really found out about anything sexwise that I'm into that might not be normal, was when my cousin caught me with a Samoan girl coming out of my hotel room in Hawaii.  Ironaclly when his wife was pregnant he told me he sees it now.  and another time (but not pregnant)  is when the other goalie saw my wifes blood on my underwear.  Both times I was able to use the dont knock it until you try it way.  I even tole my cousin it was a safe option since I was a month and a half backed up.