I need to post something. If this goes against the rules, admins and remove the post and block me. Honestly, I will be mocked and made fun of by everyone on here. 

I’ve been around here for a long time, but I don’t know how long I’ll keep on keeping in. I really don’t know what to do. Like all you I have a pregnant belly fetish. I love how big and round the belly grows. It makes a woman look stunning. Like all of you, I have tried to make this fantasy a reality and have a pregnant girlfriend. I’m only interesting in talking with pregnant women or women who were pregnant that I remained in contact with.

The stars finally aligned. I started seeing this pregnant woman. We met off of seeking arrangements. We really hit it off. She seemed to like me. She wanted an arrangement and I obliged. She agreed o meet up once a week. After three months we only months. She kept coming up with excuses and I gave her the benefit of doubt, however it was severely affecting me financially. I couldn’t afford to continue. It was clear that I could not continue and i reluctantly told her that. She told me that I could not do that. She depended on me even though she admired she did not follow through her commitment. We agreed to meet again. I followed through my end in the arrangement. Comes the day to meet up, I got stood up. No communication. It was embarrassing. I heard from her the next day. She’s texted me she’s ending it after accepting my money. 

I could not get my money back. I reported her but she’s still online selling content and maki g arrangements with other guys. I started talking with another pregnant woman. Honestly all I do is get scammed by women. No one cares about me. All I do is work and work. I work for a company that just stretches me thin and the people I lead shit on me because I’m the only one who actually works. All my friends are not my friends anymore. There’s no point to living. There was only one thing I know that would make me happy, my pregnant fetish. 

I started talking with 18 year old pregnant woman. Parentally she uses seeking to find guys to pay her for sex. I told her my story and she was sympathetic. One day she sends me a video of her literally saying “your problems are bullshit, you’re a waste of time, and it doesn’t matter if you lull yourself because you’ll die lonely anyway.” A reconnected with a woman who I been friends with while pregnant. She promised to send pics and Skype and what not. Sent her money and I think you can guess what did not happen. 

Long story short there is no point anymore. No one cares. I’m a loser. The women who scammed me won. I lost so much money so there’s no point of living. I need to share this so others won’t end up like me. 

OK, first thing: are you going to engage in self-harm? You said multiple times that there is no point in living, so first we must establish that even if you leave this forum, which is fine, that you do not engage in self-harm. Please confirm.

There is no need to feel as you are going to be ridiculed at all... It's actually the opposite.... if you believe, as a man, that you are above any other species when it comes to manipulation and naïve decisions turned bad, think again.
I can sum it up fairly easy, but men are completely losing the battle of what society allows and condones. Which includes certain women making a lot of money of the internet, with all security measures in their favor. And it's up to you guys to make it all work again in your favor. When was the last time that you were NOT looking a woman and felt a certain way? Even I'm able to look at a woman and be attracted or not attracted to her. She doesn't have to do anything for this. What we don't actually don't like are men trying to get something from us, because we want strong men... but...BUT...the moment we see that you desperately try to make things work out and even want to pay for it? And we see a structure happening in here, especially a niche that has no filter from the requester? That's the moment something clicks inside of even the most ethically raised female.. I'm just telling it like it is.. You write so clearly what you're doing and how the women in your life are just receiving and taking advantage of you. It's not even necessary to use contracts with you, as you jump in with the notion to finally land a pregnant girl/woman. If you're still reading this you know exactly what I'm going with this. It's about you setting your own boundaries and trying to talk with someone about this. We are accustomed to 24/7 attention, but what we crave the most is validation. So the minute you give this to us, we can be doing the right things as honoring our agreements with you or, in your case, decide to leave with all the goods, the positive reinforcements and then seek out the next guy. It's really not fair, but it's also really simple and logic. Women are build different, act different. I'm advocating for the men this time, but if I read this I think it's time a woman actually steps up and defend our side. We can be loyal, we can flake, but we can also completely dive into manipulating male biological behavior and urges.. I honestly feel that we all have our issues, me and myself included, but reading the fact that you seek out arrangements with pregnant women and they all do the exact same thing raises a red flag, which is you trying to keep doing something that you know will end up badly. From the internet to you, you really matter, but stop filling your hit with thinking that the world owes you anything or that the women you are interacting with are the kind that actually would care about you. There are some horrible people in this world and you just happened to choose them, solely based of the fact that they are pregnant..

This is why you shouldn't send women money on the internet. It only exasperates your desperation. Also, don't do anything crazy, man. We are here if you need someone to talk to.

Mate I understand what you are going through however, having bad relationships with women is not worth deleting yourself over. There are far worse misfortunes in life such as being told you have stage 4 cancer and only weeks left to live.

Money, women, fortune, fame, all of these are material attachments we chase after. Indeed women are nice and fun to be with but you cannot allow your desire to be with them make you weak.

It’s bad enough in our society that some women think they have power over men. Letting them bring you down to the point you want to delete yourself if you can’t have them is something you don’t want to do.

Trust me mate it’s not the end of the world. Write this off as a loss and move on. Life is not fair and we don’t always get what we want. In fact, we fail more times than we succeed. It’s how we handle the failures that matters.

Everyone has setbacks in life mate. Even the women who have treated you badly have faced bad times and will likely face a lot more given the bad karma they are putting out. Stay the course mate. Life is too precious to just throw away especially for something as manageable as your situation.

Best of luck to you.

I think it's time for you to find fulfillment in life with something other than satisfaction through sex.

It's also time to seek professional help about your fetish, which has clearly become a negative influence in your life. Leaving this site is probably a pretty good idea.

However, that does NOT mean that life isn't worth living. We all make mistakes. Consider this a learning experience and move on. If that's hard for you to see right now, then I strongly urge you to talk to someone who can help you get there.

Hey man I read your story and it is exactly what I went thru too. I trusted pregnant women I met online, sent them money, and then sent them more money, and never heard from them.

It sucks. It fucking sucks. High key 1000 percent fucking sucks

IT WILL BE OK

The best mistakes are ones that you make once. You learned from this, now you know not to trust people online and people you dont know online.

Its hard man it really is. Everyone on this site has felt what you have felt man. But we still just gotta keep trucking. There are alot of ways you can still experience this fetish. Like invest in a silicone bump, or mabye someone who role plays online.

Above all, I would suggest talking to a professional and taking a break from all things pregnant. You should focus on you right now, and focus on things that could help earn your money back.

You got this man. Walk with steel

Serious question @scottlandmanusa: are you doing okay?

You're in a tough spot. Take a break, do something else, avoid all girls (especially SA or escorts) and if possible, focus your energy elsewhere. You'll be fine, you will find someone, just take a break. People make terrible decisions when they're upset or depressed.

Wow.. life is worth living. Yes everyone's lives suck in some form but we still continue because there are good things to do. If you still have that video of that woman who said bad things to you.. go on tiktok & post it. That will get her some "attention" & she will think twice about being mean. You're a good person & everyone mean to you will eventually learn why they can't treat people that way.