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I know this might sound silly but I really need help. So I love my boyfriend a lot, but I have no clue how to tell him about my fetish, or if I even should? I'm not sure what he'll think. I know once he told me that guys are attracted to pregnant girls because it shows that they're fertile& what not... Idk if this is tmi (sorry) but in the beginning of our relationship he would get turned on at the idea of getting me pregnant? Lol.
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Um like half of my thing got cut out I guess but anyways to sum things up he said "I know you want me to get you pregnant , it turns you on" during sex once. But obviously I'm not ready for it but I like the idea. What should I do? I don't want him to think I'm a weirdo..
rfuture4
how long have you guys been together? I think you could tell him that the fantasy turns you on, while also emphasizing the need to practice safe sex until you feel more comfortable with each other. sounds like you guys both share this fantasy to some degree, so you should talk about it! you don't have to spill the beans either, just drop hints until one of you opens up. communication is key to any relationship, especially in the bedroom! keep us posted!
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Aw thanks! That was super helpful. Smile we've been together for 8 months now. We've always practiced safe sex, & will continue to do so until we're ready for a family (I'm 19 so it'll be a few years haha) but how should I bring it up!! During sex maybe?
Jimmy84
I would maybe "ease" your way into it, during times when you guys are having sex. Don't be blunt but maybe say things about not using protection and see how he takes it and adds to it. Talking during sex is a lot of fun, so he may take what you say, add to it and it'll make the experience great for you both. That'll give you an idea of how far he's wanting to go with fantasizing.
rfuture4
well said, Jimmy. I think bringing it up during sex is definitely hot. Along with what Jimmy said, ease into it to find out what turns you guys on and where to set boundaries.
You can also talk about it outside of the bedroom, which is also a turn on. Example, you two are shopping and see a cute pregnant girl. You can say how cute she looks with a baby bump and check his response, or ask your bf what he thinks about her. Could be fun and interesting! Little things like this can go a long way!
orta03
I'll also add that make sure he knows this is a fetish and not that you actually want a baby right now.
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Thanks guys so much! Rfuture4 I've never thought of that. That is such a good idea. I think I'll say something like,"aw do you think I'm going to look as cute as her when I'm pregnant?" It's such an innocent question & a good way to ease into things too!! & definitely orta, I'll make that loud & clear. Smile anyways thanks you guys, you've really helped me outSmile)

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