I was wondering if anybody has any experience asking for pregnant pictures on Facebook. I have a couple friends who are or have been pregnant but posted nothing. Is their a non-creepy way to go about asking them for maternity pics?

(February 10, 2017, 9:05 pm)preggoted Is their a non-creepy way to go about asking them for maternity pics?

No.

Nope....

I disagree. I have been totally honest with a lot of my friends regarding my fetish and they have for the most part been fine with sending me pictures. It all depends on the type of friendship you have with the person.

So no one has any ideas

No, just don't fucking do it holy shit that's creepy

Ok point taken

How do you tell people pregnant bellies turn you on and then go "oh by the way can I get some pics of you (for my spank bank)?"

While I love my friends, if any of my male friends asked me to send pictures at any point in time to them out of the blue, i'd drop them like a sack of potatos because they need to respect that my body really is ONLY for my man's. theres a difference in it, you can always say 'nah, let me be the judge of that' or 'prove it' but you really have to have that kind of joking relationship or mutual feeling. if anyone just asked me or screenshotted my snapchat i'd be like wtf.... .

I do have one guy friend that is an awesome friend and i'd probably send them anyway. but by no means would it be a sexy picture it'd be a 'mfing pregnant problems' style thing. but i do from time to time ask about my appearance, because he is always up front.

If you're close enough that she asks you about her outfits or something, and youd say 'well let me see' it is different. (I sent a picture to my friend asking what he thought of my lipstick, but hes a guy that notices fingernail polish and stuff...which is sweet and he compliments me on it. but he is totally straight. he's also gone clothes shopping, shoe shopping, and we sit and just watch movies all platonic like.

if the girl isn't comfortable enough to send you pictures at her best and ask advice or fish for compliments or something, you aint getting them if shes bursting at the seams and feels horrible about herself. Coming from a fairly low self esteem point, i'm a little ways over chubby, and I probably wouldn't be showing off my entire body, especially since i'm sure the swelling and all just compliments that all so much more.

(February 13, 2017, 1:51 am)Berlynne While I love my friends, if any of my male friends asked me to send pictures at any point in time to them out of the blue, i'd drop them like a sack of potatos because they need to respect that my body really is ONLY for my man's. theres a difference in it, you can always say 'nah, let me be the judge of that' or 'prove it' but you really have to have that kind of joking relationship or mutual feeling. if anyone just asked me or screenshotted my snapchat i'd be like wtf.... .

I do have one guy friend that is an awesome friend and i'd probably send them anyway. but by no means would it be a sexy picture it'd be a 'mfing pregnant problems' style thing. but i do from time to time ask about my appearance, because he is always up front.

If you're close enough that she asks you about her outfits or something, and youd say 'well let me see' it is different. (I sent a picture to my friend asking what he thought of my lipstick, but hes a guy that notices fingernail polish and stuff...which is sweet and he compliments me on it. but he is totally straight. he's also gone clothes shopping, shoe shopping, and we sit and just watch movies all platonic like.

if the girl isn't comfortable enough to send you pictures at her best and ask advice or fish for compliments or something, you aint getting them if shes bursting at the seams and feels horrible about herself. Coming from a fairly low self esteem point, i'm a little ways over chubby, and I probably wouldn't be showing off my entire body, especially since i'm sure the swelling and all just compliments that all so much more.

All of this is true. The kinds of situations where it might be acceptable are by far the statistical outliers. It might work if you are lifelong best friends that never had a dating/romantic relationship. Pregnant or not, asking a woman who is likely in a committed relationship to give you pics of themselves that they aren't already posting publicly is damn weird. That is only made even more fucking weird if they're pregnant and, as Berlynne pointed out, may not have the best self-image. It also stands to reason that if self-image isn't a problem for her, she'd probably be posting belly pics already.

The only time I ever attempted it was with a pregnant coworker who posted some belly pics early but stopped after the second trimester. At work we were talking about Facebook for some reason and I made an offhand comment like, "The other night my wife [who posted lots of belly pics during her pregnancies] was saying you should start posting belly pics again." But this was someone I already knew well and I had a decent and believable way to frame the suggestion.