I have a close friend (who at one time I was in love with) who got pregnant a few years back. She recently told me she was pregnant again. The first time it was incredibly difficult for me to be around her because I was in love with her and because of my fetish towards pregnancy. I only hung out with her twice after she told me she was pregnant. Since then I have fallen out of love with her, a long time ago. So, I don't really know how to act around her now, it feels like it's going to be easier this time around.

Man you should know how to react. I mean, if you 2 had some sort of friendship before you stopped speaking then it should be no different ten just trying to talk to a close friend.. I haven't had this happen to me personally, but I'm sure it will happen someday, and I'll treat them no different.. Hell I'd take The opportunity to get a few pics and hey, maybe even a few belly rubs if you're that close. Basically just chill out, be yourself, and try to control them hormones.

But... If you're REALLY close... U could tell her about you're fetish... But only if you're SUPER close.. It all comes down to how close you 2 really are.

And finally, I know you were in love but if you've fallen out of love like you say you have then you shouldn't have any problems.. I'm thinking you still have some lingering feelings.. Maybe you could talk it out with her. (This part applies reguardless of how close you 2 really are) Good luck Friend!!

I was infatuated with a girl for several years, but it never really went anywhere. We lost touch for a several more years and I got over her. When she next contacted me, it was to tell me she was pregnant by some asshole who was now in jail. She was pretty lonely and if I had played my cards right, I could have been with her -- she was single and extremely horny. On the one hand, I regret not going down that path... on the other hand, she had been around the block quite a few times while we lost touch, so I don't know if that's really something I would have wanted for my own biological safety...

If I could re-live all that, I'd take a middle-of-the-road approach: I would have gone to her place and hung out so I could have at least gotten some rubs, touching, and general "being near a hot preggo"... but probably would stop short of sex for the aforementioned reasons.

I'm not sure of the relationship you have with this girl, and if she's with someone or not... those details would help.

It's definitely a different feeling than the first time. The first time I was still in love with her and still thought someday we'd end up together. Now, it's completely different. It's not so much I have lingering feelings for her, I don't (I love her as a very close friend, but I'm not IN love with her anymore at all) but it's the fact that any time a friend or even someone I know gets pregnant it's kind of a weird feeling. It's more erotic if I know the person, if you get my drift. Anyway, I've been hanging out with her lately and though she's not showing yet, I think I'll be okay when she does. I'm kind of excited a little!

Good for you. Like I said, if I had a do-over, I would have stayed closer to her throughout her pregnancy and made an effort to actually go hang out with her one-on-one. But that's because I would have wanted some light playtime... it may be different in your situation. I applaud you either way if you're able to navigate these waters exactly as you want to. Whatever you do, don't let it end with any regrets!