So, after a long night of heavy thinking, I have come to the conclusion that I might not get to indulge in my pregnancy fetish any more than I've been able to do, and I'm almost to the point where I'm okay with that. The only thing I won't be okay with is being with the wrong woman and having any more kids before I'm ready. In fact, I'll be okay if my daughter is the only child I'll ever have in my lifetime.

I get that times have changed and women have become more careful about who they interact with. I also don't want to rush into anything prematurely with anyone; and, for once, I want to be with the right woman - even if it means not indulging in my fetish with her at all.

What do y'all think?

(February 12, 2018, 2:12 am)preggoluvr4286 So, after a long night of heavy thinking, I have come to the conclusion that I might not get to indulge in my pregnancy fetish any more than I've been able to do, and I'm almost to the point where I'm okay with that. The only thing I won't be okay with is being with the wrong woman and having any more kids before I'm ready. In fact, I'll be okay if my daughter is the only child I'll ever have in my lifetime.

I get that times have changed and women have become more careful about who they interact with. I also don't want to rush into anything prematurely with anyone; and, for once, I want to be with the right woman - even if it means not indulging in my fetish with her at all.

What do y'all think?

I think this is what we've been mostly telling you from the beginning.

I think that's an extremely rational conclusion, and you'll be doing yourself a huge service if you accept it and enjoy what is available to you in the most thorough way you can.

The one thing I would toss in, and this is a personal lifestyle preference, is that you don't have to limit yourself to "the" right woman. Monogamy isn't for everyone and you might find that searching for the elusive soul-mate, the supposed one person to make all your dreams come true, will only end in disappointment and frustration. That's what I came to, anyway. Consider instead having as many relationships as you need for varying things. I'm mostly advising you to not put unnecessary blinders on.

Anyway, yes, right -- good!

(February 13, 2018, 1:38 pm)Akhenaten The one thing I would toss in, and this is a personal lifestyle preference, is that you don't have to limit yourself to "the" right woman. Monogamy isn't for everyone and you might find that searching for the elusive soul-mate, the supposed one person to make all your dreams come true, will only end in disappointment and frustration. That's what I came to, anyway. Consider instead having as many relationships as you need for varying things. I'm mostly advising you to not put unnecessary blinders on.

This is fine advice, BUT be sure to adjust your expectations accordingly. Casual dating is fine if you treat it casually. But you'd be opening yourself up to rejection more often, and we all know how well that goes.

(February 13, 2018, 2:07 pm)doubleintegral

(February 13, 2018, 1:38 pm)Akhenaten The one thing I would toss in, and this is a personal lifestyle preference, is that you don't have to limit yourself to "the" right woman. Monogamy isn't for everyone and you might find that searching for the elusive soul-mate, the supposed one person to make all your dreams come true, will only end in disappointment and frustration. That's what I came to, anyway. Consider instead having as many relationships as you need for varying things. I'm mostly advising you to not put unnecessary blinders on.

This is fine advice, BUT be sure to adjust your expectations accordingly. Casual dating is fine if you treat it casually. But you'd be opening yourself up to rejection more often, and we all know how well that goes.

Rejection is one of the reasons why I don't like casual dating in the first place, to be honest. And we all know what happens to me when I'm rejected (which is why I'm giving up on my fetish in the first place). I'm not sure monogamy is for me, either - but I do know for a fact that commitment is one of my things. So, that being said, I would much rather be in a loving and committed relationship with someone who I can spend the rest of my life with than risk more trouble with this particular fetish. And that's the bottom line for me.

Think you should get past your ego, reason why people take rejection so hard

(February 13, 2018, 6:07 pm)preggoluvr4286

(February 13, 2018, 2:07 pm)doubleintegral

(February 13, 2018, 1:38 pm)Akhenaten The one thing I would toss in, and this is a personal lifestyle preference, is that you don't have to limit yourself to "the" right woman. Monogamy isn't for everyone and you might find that searching for the elusive soul-mate, the supposed one person to make all your dreams come true, will only end in disappointment and frustration. That's what I came to, anyway. Consider instead having as many relationships as you need for varying things. I'm mostly advising you to not put unnecessary blinders on.

This is fine advice, BUT be sure to adjust your expectations accordingly. Casual dating is fine if you treat it casually. But you'd be opening yourself up to rejection more often, and we all know how well that goes.

Rejection is one of the reasons why I don't like casual dating in the first place, to be honest. And we all know what happens to me when I'm rejected (which is why I'm giving up on my fetish in the first place). I'm not sure monogamy is for me, either - but I do know for a fact that commitment is one of my things. So, that being said, I would much rather be in a loving and committed relationship with someone who I can spend the rest of my life with than risk more trouble with this particular fetish. And that's the bottom line for me.

I don't find casual hook ups appealing either. I would much rather have one good relationship at a time. What can I say? I'm a sucker for romance.