(January 19, 2023, 10:57 pm)debood A not so great update. Like I figured the external stuff started kicking in like it always seems to do in these situations. Ex-husband/baby daddy stuff, living situations, and finances/general stress. Trying to be understanding and patient but also kind of feeling pretty iced out, treated unfairly and misled in general. Not closing the book on it, but I'm not gonna chase her down to make it happen.

Landed another date with someone else really cool on Saturday though, so I can't be too upset.

Did you also find this next one on accident too? Does she happen to be pregnant as well? Ive never seen a pregnant woman on a dating app, ever.

(January 15, 2023, 10:27 am)Diogo36 Also found some pregnant girls on Tinder… instead a photo on profile, I put a message: I like pregnant women.

I also wanna know. Does that actually work?

(January 19, 2023, 11:56 pm)Proteintt

(January 19, 2023, 10:57 pm)debood A not so great update. Like I figured the external stuff started kicking in like it always seems to do in these situations. Ex-husband/baby daddy stuff, living situations, and finances/general stress. Trying to be understanding and patient but also kind of feeling pretty iced out, treated unfairly and misled in general. Not closing the book on it, but I'm not gonna chase her down to make it happen.

Landed another date with someone else really cool on Saturday though, so I can't be too upset.

Did you also find this next one on accident too? Does she happen to be pregnant as well? Ive never seen a pregnant woman on a dating app, ever.

Not pregnant haha and regular swiping

Canada's tough. SA is probably the best option.

I’m in Central California and despite it being poor, single parent central, I’ve had no luck on any of the sites. I definitely wish there were enough pregnant women to actually constitute its own app

The big question for me is if seeking an arrangement is worth a punt. It's expensive to join and I am unsure how much the girls on there expect to earn for a meet - any advice welcome!

I live in Southern UK and there are at least half a dozen gorgeous preggos on there right now looking for people to 'help' in return for favours. Now I wouldn't mind at all paying out say £100 for a Netflix and chill session with them with some snogging/petting etc involved but is that realistic. I realise of course that I would probably have to meet up for coffee etc first and then maybe negotiate or take them for lunch or whatever but I would be happy to do all that and pay the £60 a month fee provided it has a high probability of leading to an intimate afternoon for a sensible price. What I don't want to do is to join, take them for coffee, then lunch and then find that I'm thinking £100 a session is reasonable but they are looking for £1000 a month or something...

Any advice?

(January 21, 2023, 6:06 am)saxon The big question for me is if seeking an arrangement is worth a punt.  It's expensive to join and I am unsure how much the girls on there expect to earn for a meet - any advice welcome!

I live in Southern UK and there are at least half a dozen gorgeous preggos on there right now looking for people to 'help' in return for favours.  Now I wouldn't mind at all paying out say £100 for a Netflix and chill session with them with some snogging/petting etc involved but is that realistic.  I realise of course that I would probably have to meet up for coffee etc first and then maybe negotiate or take them for lunch or whatever but I would be happy to do all that and pay the £60 a month fee provided it has a high probability of leading to an intimate afternoon for a sensible price.  What I don't want to do is to join, take them for coffee, then lunch and then find that I'm thinking £100 a session is reasonable but they are looking for £1000 a month or something...

Any advice?

Firstly, get any potential "provider" to either (1) take a screenshot of themselves showing off their bellies while holding a previously crumble piece of paper with your name and the date on it, or (2) do a live videochat where they show off that they're the real deal.
Secondly, just be very up front about the costs - remember that the relationship is transactional, at least at getgo.
Thirdly, if they come to you with a sob story that involves losing or needing money, interrogate them before you part with any quid.

If they act weird or lash out in response to any of the above, move on brother.

Avoid hook-up or lesser-known dating sites: full of fakes, catfishing, thought to be improper or unPC, and suspicious activity. 5 dating sites I can think of from my head are 1. E-harmony, 2. Match, 3. Christian Mingle, 4. Catholic singles and 5. Plenty of Fish...plus J-Date for Jewish persons seeking others in their religion or faith. The ones with the most success rates, as well better reputations for not being controversial and women feel more comfortable in those places to seek anyone they're interested in, including pregnant and single parents. I'm aware they tend to be religious-oriented and a higher sense of moral, ethical professional and not oversexualized environments (these sites turned off "keywords" for things not already on their profiles like biological sex or gender expression, sexual or romantic attractions, and exact ages to prove they are over age 18 or 21 - sensitive info I know but so are posting your own real non-shopped pics for all to see, and semi-direct not exact location), because the hook-up sites seem to make us look awful and the pregnant people themselves look equally "of low quality" when both of us are simply wanting platonic, romantic and intimate relationships not just limited to quickies. In the past, I had a few pregnant RL and online friends who stopped contacting me or not as regularly like before, because they're raising their babies and kids, or decided not to pursue any relationships, esp. they have husbands (I prefer to seek to date singles, but I know about poly couples).