(November 13, 2021, 4:39 am)debood For general non-pregnant dating im curious too though. Hinge used to be my go-to but it feels shitty now and my last 3+ dating attempts on there were all with women who shouldn't have been on the app to begin with (Not over exes, massive mental issues, etc). I hate Bumble with a passion and Tinder just feels like a dumpster fire

I got news for ya... it ain't the apps.

(November 15, 2021, 11:52 am)Akhenaten

(November 13, 2021, 4:39 am)debood For general non-pregnant dating im curious too though. Hinge used to be my go-to but it feels shitty now and my last 3+ dating attempts on there were all with women who shouldn't have been on the app to begin with (Not over exes, massive mental issues, etc). I hate Bumble with a passion and Tinder just feels like a dumpster fire

I got news for ya... it ain't the apps.

I would agree if it werent for the fact that I'm still actively getting matches and dates. Kind of hard to have success when someone tells you they arent emotionally available or is still having breakdowns/pining over their ex and looking for an emotional pillow.

Everything went downhill after COVID, and Hinge has been on a downturn for ages. If you're trying to imply Tinder is any sort of good, then lol. And Bumble is just a slightly fancier Tinder that shows most women don't know how to send intro messages

(November 15, 2021, 12:22 pm)debood

(November 15, 2021, 11:52 am)Akhenaten

(November 13, 2021, 4:39 am)debood For general non-pregnant dating im curious too though. Hinge used to be my go-to but it feels shitty now and my last 3+ dating attempts on there were all with women who shouldn't have been on the app to begin with (Not over exes, massive mental issues, etc). I hate Bumble with a passion and Tinder just feels like a dumpster fire

I got news for ya... it ain't the apps.

I would agree if it werent for the fact that I'm still actively getting matches and dates. Kind of hard to have success when someone tells you they arent emotionally available or is still having breakdowns/pining over their ex and looking for an emotional pillow.

Everything went downhill after COVID, and Hinge has been on a downturn for ages. If you're trying to imply Tinder is any sort of good, then lol. And Bumble is just a slightly fancier Tinder that shows most women don't know how to send intro messages

No, I agree with you entirely. I'm just saying it's not the apps - it's the women. (Not that men/enbies are any better...)

(November 15, 2021, 1:14 pm)Akhenaten

(November 15, 2021, 12:22 pm)debood

(November 15, 2021, 11:52 am)Akhenaten

(November 13, 2021, 4:39 am)debood For general non-pregnant dating im curious too though. Hinge used to be my go-to but it feels shitty now and my last 3+ dating attempts on there were all with women who shouldn't have been on the app to begin with (Not over exes, massive mental issues, etc). I hate Bumble with a passion and Tinder just feels like a dumpster fire

I got news for ya... it ain't the apps.

I would agree if it werent for the fact that I'm still actively getting matches and dates. Kind of hard to have success when someone tells you they arent emotionally available or is still having breakdowns/pining over their ex and looking for an emotional pillow.

Everything went downhill after COVID, and Hinge has been on a downturn for ages. If you're trying to imply Tinder is any sort of good, then lol. And Bumble is just a slightly fancier Tinder that shows most women don't know how to send intro messages

No, I agree with you entirely. I'm just saying it's not the apps - it's the women. (Not that men/enbies are any better...)

Ooooooh I'm sorry, I totally misread that comment and that it was pointed at me haha. The perks of waking up too early and being grumpy.

But yeah, just mostly everyone in general on the apps suck apparently lol. I've heard some insane horror stories from friends or other women I've matched with. I just feel like Pre-COVID my matching/success rates were a lot higher, especially on Hinge. Now it seems like I'm constantly having to field and make sure the other person isn't just there looking for friends/chatting or is hiding that they have kids or just got divorced or something else crazy. Even Facebook Dating was actually decent, had some hookups and lots of dates from there during the first year and now I literally can't even get a decent match anymore.

Only ONE match in Fetlife and now I'm a member of Pregnant Hookup (another app, except it's on my flat top instead of my phone)...I'm lucky to met this 35-year old woman from across the country and her live-in boyfriend who has another GF on the side, but she felt more inclined to find another man (preferably who has a fetish) with the pregnancy hormones and the "post-COVID, the world changed, do whatever we want" attitude, last July, she came by for a RL meet-up with me and I spend some time in a hotel suite, two men checking out, admiring and fondling a pregnant beauty in her third trimester, and most of all, she enjoyed being the center of male gaze/ attention (other than the baby who was born 2 months later).

(November 11, 2021, 12:50 pm)LoveBellies15 I'll post some stories later, but the most successful apps I've used have been Tinder and Whisper. I've seen some preggos on Bumble, POF, etc. but they only really followed through on meeting via tinder and whisper.

Where are you searching?  I'm in NY and constantly coming up dry with Tinder.
Shame they don't have a search engine key word for pregnant women.

Adultfriendfinder.com used to have a key word search and I actually met a few pregnant women online there but times have changed, and the stupid app no longer has pregnant as a keyword.....they have feet....but not pregnant....super frustrating.

Besides dating, what about finding preg providers in your local area.  I used to find on CL, BP and Indie girls, etc.  Since they all were closed down and since Covid, I don't know where to go.  Can you suggest any sites with provider listings?  Thank you.

(November 15, 2021, 2:48 pm)IntoPreggos Only ONE match in Fetlife and now I'm a member of Pregnant Hookup (another app, except it's on my flat top instead of my phone)...I'm lucky to met this 35-year old woman from across the country and her live-in boyfriend who has another GF on the side, but she felt more inclined to find another man (preferably who has a fetish) with the pregnancy hormones and the "post-COVID, the world changed, do whatever we want" attitude, last July, she came by for a RL meet-up with me and I spend some time in a hotel suite, two men checking out, admiring and fondling a pregnant beauty in her third trimester, and most of all, she enjoyed being the center of male gaze/ attention (other than the baby who was born 2 months later).

Is this what you're talking about? https://www.pregnanthookup.com. Seems like a scam.

Any replacements for Backpage, CL, Indi girls, etc?

(February 11, 2022, 1:39 am)BabyInBumpsOut

(November 15, 2021, 2:48 pm)IntoPreggos Only ONE match in Fetlife and now I'm a member of Pregnant Hookup (another app, except it's on my flat top instead of my phone)...I'm lucky to met this 35-year old woman from across the country and her live-in boyfriend who has another GF on the side, but she felt more inclined to find another man (preferably who has a fetish) with the pregnancy hormones and the "post-COVID, the world changed, do whatever we want" attitude, last July, she came by for a RL meet-up with me and I spend some time in a hotel suite, two men checking out, admiring and fondling a pregnant beauty in her third trimester, and most of all, she enjoyed being the center of male gaze/ attention (other than the baby who was born 2 months later).

Is this what you're talking about? https://www.pregnanthookup.com. Seems like a scam.

All of em are, FB dating is another (free, but not customized or specialized) and I'm through with fetlife.