I’m mostly thinking about celebrities but it applies to all women. What I mean is: can you carpenmentalize your fetish from feeling happy for her as a mom-to-be?

Yes, just because a woman is pregnant doesn't mean I'm automatically into her. There was this girl I used to work with and we did NOT get along at all. When she announced she was pregnant I thought it might at least be a silver lining for having to deal with her all the time... it wasn't. Even when she was 9 months pregnant she was still just as much of a bitch as she'd always been, her belly didn't do anything to make it up for me.

(January 12, 2023, 4:16 pm)ntchndlr Yes, just because a woman is pregnant doesn't mean I'm automatically into her. There was this girl I used to work with and we did NOT get along at all. When she announced she was pregnant I thought it might at least be a silver lining for having to deal with her all the time... it wasn't. Even when she was 9 months pregnant she was still just as much of a bitch as she'd always been, her belly didn't do anything to make it up for me.

We can only hope the hospital ran out of epidural on the day she went in to give birth. Honestly I think a good cunt busting birthing is the perfect punishment for a bitch like her. 

As far as separating the fetish from the woman, I don’t think I can do that even if it’s a woman I can’t stand to be around. I look at every pregnancy as an opportunity to satisfy my thirst if you know what I mean

I worked with 4 pregnant women once for 3 months, we were a team so it was only really us and a few other people in and out of our work related projects, I had their numbers, snapchats, tiktoks you name it but I couldn’t really get into them fetish wise just because of the mutual respect we had for each other, not sure how to really explain it. Maybe I’d feel bad if I fetishized my peers like no matter how many times I saw bare belly from them itching their bellies, see belly hanging out of our uniforms or seeing the the ungodly amount of food they ate on and off the clock I never had the full on urge.

I've had the opportunity to work around women while pregnant three times in my previous job. And before that one, quite a few times in college and my first job ever. Honestly, it's pretty easy to do since I understand the challenge of opening up this fetish to pregnant women, let alone friends, family, co-workers, etc. who know me on some personal level. Does it stop me from fantasizing what it'd be like if my co-worker let me fuck while she was in her third trimester? Nope. Does it mean I won't ever fulfill this fetish since most women frown upon it? Not necessarily.

I know when and how to put aside my kinky self. I only let it out when the girl starts talking fetish life on her end anyways.

Can I separate my fetish from the woman? Absolutely. I have experience with this which I'll go on to explain. 

I've been in my current job for 13 years, later this year. The office is predominantly female and always has been throughout my time with the company. If memory serves me correctly (and I'm sure I've briefly gone over this in the past at some point), I've been there for seven pregnancies that I can remember. All of them were in the first eight years or so. Two of them going through two pregnancies each and three others going through a pregnancy of their own. 

There's also the potential for another pregnancy from one of them who hasn't had her first yet... I'll be very surprised if that happens any time soon though. 

Of course my fetish has been lurking in the background whilst many of these pregnancies took place. One of them in particular I was incredibly attracted to (both whilst pregnant on both occasions and not pregnant), whilst another one genuinely didn't appeal to me whatsoever. The only time the fetish ever 'triggered' in my mind whilst they were going through their pregnancies was when they were talking about them. Disappointingly, that didn't happen as often as I'd hoped but of course because they are work colleagues, that was probably for the best. Also, I've often socialised with these women outside of work whenever there's been meet-ups arranged through work - such as Christmas parties and other team-building (if that's the right way of putting it...) events. On those sorts of occasions, the fetish genuinely hasn't even crossed my mind. 

Not one of them is aware of my pregnancy fetish and I highly doubt any of them ever will. It's something that I 'hide' very well. Not only out of respect for other people and not wanting to make them feel uncomfortable around me given how the fetish is often frowned upon and misunderstood, but in real life I'm quite a shy person. It's only really on the likes of forums amongst similarly-minded people where I feel comfortable enough I can open-up a little more, in words.