(September 7, 2017, 1:09 am)preggoluvr4286 Any ideas, guys?

Based on what you've posted in this thread - and I mean this completely fucking seriously, by the way - you need to distance yourself from the pregnancy fetish as much as you possibly can for right now and get some professional help. It's obvious that you've crossed into "obsession" territory and that can be very dangerous - the fact that having the cops called on you twice wasn't enough of a deterrent is very telling. But even disregarding that, if the inability to touch pregnant bellies is really and truly throwing you into erratic fits of rage then it could be only a matter of time before you hurt yourself or someone else... not necessarily just physical harm, but also getting yourself into some serious trouble and/or alienating people that ostensibly care about you (family).

I sincerely hope you're able to get what you need so you can overcome this.

After reading through this, I'm going to agree with doubleintegral and say that you should probably stay away from the pregnancy fetish community. Also it sounds like some therapy might help you learn to express your desires in a healthier way because your fetish has gotten the cops called twice and is causing problems on your personal life too. I have a bad feeling that this is going to boil over at some point and the results won't be good for you and whoever else is involved (a family member or a random pregnant woman).

I have decided to follow doubleintregal's advice and stay away from the fetish community for a long time, perhaps permanently. I have also made the decision not to approach pregnant women anymore, and I'm debating whether or not I should even have any more kids. This has been a heartbreaking experience for me and still is. If things were different, maybe I could enjoy this fetish - but, unfortunately, I can't. It's gotten me absolutely nowhere but trouble, and the best thing for me to do is to abstain from it, perhaps permanently.

You guys have been great help. I will leave now.

How do you ask? You don't.

Source: A Pregnant woman that has a pregnancy fetish and has had men randomly ask to touch her belly, and just touch it without asking.


We are on high alert, literally I'm skeptical of anything and everything near my belly, looking at my belly etc.

I am in Mama Bear mode and everything is a threat.

Whoa! I have never even considered THAT as a possible factor for getting the cops called on me. Plus there are some expectant dads out there who are "Papa Bear" mode. I didn't realize that a lot of you ladies were EXTREMELY uncomfortable with random strangers approaching you and wanting to touch your bump.

I guess this means my days of randomly approaching pregnant women are officially over. Still, it was quite a ride!

This do not ask attitude seems very foreign to me, no woman I have ever asked has said no.

I live in Texas - in a rural area just outside of Dallas. THIS is the attitude I get from most pregnant women,

Like I said, though, my days of approaching are officially over. TBH, I can't handle it anymore. Plus, I have my daughter, my new girlfriend, and my parents to think about now.

i have hired women at walmart to pose for maternity photos over the years .the trick is to never let them see you sweat. if you go up to them shaking like a leaf well they can smell your fear. be confident or learn how to fake it. but if you just want to rub pregnant belly look for strip club in area and usually they will have a pregnant dancer. one of the reasons i quit was when i would be shopping women would come up to me and said that their friend said i was looking to hire preggoes plus around same time that pregnant marine went missing. and i was worried one of the girls who turned me down might point the cops my way. being you have had cops called on you twice i would dial it back they might have a jacket on you and anything happens to a preggo they might pull you in.

well you and girlfriend might get blessed one day. then you could touch one a whole lot. i had some one stalking my pregnant neighbor and i had been hanging with her ever since delived the other day but we still hang out every day. good luck and just try a therapist. were you with daughters mom when she was preg if not that might be root of problem.

I was with my daughter's mom throughout the pregnancy - and, even though she did try, there just wasn't enough there to satisfy the fantasies I had. Needless to say, two of my biggest fantasies - fucking her into labor and breastfeeding - were never realized. Her pre-existing medical conditions didn't help, either.

While I do hope to have kids with my new girl someday, the fact that she's an SSBBW eliminates another fantasy of mine - playing with her bellybutton when it pops out. I guess my resentment has a lot to do with these fantasies, and the possibility of never seeing them come true.

Still, with all those crimes - and the fact that the first person the cops are gonna interview is the one with the fetish - I can't help but wonder if that may be another reason why the cops love to pick on me so much. The fact that the last several groups of ladies have been forced to see me sweat because I have to be out of there when my parents are - I have to rely on them because I'm autistic - doesn't make things better.

I honestly don't see a point to continue pursuing pregnant women, especially with this information I'm seeing. I hope things get a little better in the future, but I doubt it. There is NO way that I can continue putting myself at that kind of risk - or anyone else for that matter.