So pegging is a thing.  I guess when I first learned about it, I was pretty uncomfortable because I wasn't sure --- did it turn me on? in what way? --- but now I basically like the idea.

The problem is I don't want my wife to do it to me.  I also don't want to be on the receiving end.  It's the idea of *some other guy*, not me, being pegged that I like...

I found a page on Quora where a woman said her husband wanted her to peg him and she asked if that meant he was interested in being fucked by a guy.  Many of the answers said, "Yes, probably" and one even said, "Yeah, if you really want to make him happy, offer to bring in another guy to fuck him while you watch!  That's probably what he really wants."

That made me realize that my problem isn't that I want my wife to peg me (or bring in another guy to do it while she watches) --- which is what I was afraid of when I first heard about pegging --- but that I want to be the guy doing the thrusting!  

Some guys get a thrill about the idea of losing control, submitting, receiving great anal sex, but I actually *love* control and think fucking another guy (especially if he identifies as straight) could be crazy fun!  So I'm kind of the opposite of a pegging person.


Is anyone here interested in being pegged?  Do you think the Quora people were right and you would prefer to just be fucked by another guy if that were on the table?  Anybody else in my shoes?

@"BasedGd1768" I totally understand your feelings, I personally identify as straight and have never been with a man or planned to be ever. But I can’t deny i think a lot about being on the receiving end of sex for once, letting a man stick his cock inside me and thrust hard until he or he and I came. I recently have switched me dating preferences to trans to see if maybe I could find a man woman to peg me? Best of both worlds idk. But I certainly understand you. If I knew who you were and if we were close I’d let you give it a try on me lol

Far as the quora answers go, yeah, I don’t think so. Not entirely at least. I mean just because he wants his wife to peg him doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants some manstick. He may just want his wife to give it to him. Now whether that leads to other shit, well, that’s up to him.

I can also see why you like the idea of pegging but to someone else, not you. Could be fun watching your wife dominate some other dude. And it doesn’t even have to be homosexual in nature, you just like seeing your wife in charge. Cool!

Personally speaking, I’ll try anything twice.

(June 12, 2022, 9:28 am)OrangeEater Far as the quora answers go, yeah, I don’t think so. Not entirely at least. I mean just because he wants his wife to peg him doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants some manstick. He may just want his wife to give it to him. Now whether that leads to other shit, well, that’s up to him.

I can also see why you like the idea of pegging but to someone else, not you. Could be fun watching your wife dominate some other dude. And it doesn’t even have to be homosexual in nature, you just like seeing your wife in charge. Cool!

Personally speaking, I’ll try anything twice.

I agree that the Quora answers I quoted were a bit much.  But I enjoyed reading them...!

Only thing is, I wouldn't want my wife to dominate some other dude.  I would want some other married dude to ask *his* wife to peg him, then for her to suggest bringing in another guy (à la the Quora answer), and the other guy to dominate him.  It's got nothing to do with seeing my wife in charge...!  It's more like the thrill of a straight guy submitting himself to receiving anal sex from another guy.  Especially if he's married.  Like, what kind of married guy wants another guy's cock in his butt?  I mean, no offense --- I think it's so weird that it's super sexy.

EDIT: Here is the Quora post, "My husband wants me to peg him, but I'd rather have another man fuck him. What are your thoughts?"  Most of the replies are, "Pegging and bisexuality are two different things" like OrangeEater suggested, but not the top post (by Duncan Ferguson).  Also see the posts by Jon Taylor and Blair Stephen.

I'm personally straight, and my wife pegs me from time to time. No interest in men whatsoever. I even have a video of her pegging me while she was pregnant. We've went further than that even, I've been fisted by her quite a few times. Just the thought of a woman dominating my asshole turns me on.