I have been into pregnancy for years now and have watched everything imaginable and done my business. Today I met up with a women who invited me into her home to talk and let me rub her belly. For the life of me i couldn't get aroused in any way shape or form. I mean it was amazing just not stimulating at all. I get home and do my normal routine and im fine. WTF?!

With these kinds of things, it's impossible to be "broken" -- so no.

If you're wondering why you didn't get hard, though...

Could you go into more detail about the nature of your relationship and of this particular meeting? For me, if I were just meeting her for the first time, I might be too anxious for anything more than conversation and belly rubs. Sure, I'd be fascinated by her belly and everything, but unless I'd want to fool around with her even if she weren't pregnant, I probably wouldn't get aroused. Certainly doesn't mean the fetish is gone, though. I'd probably explode first opportunity I got.

No you are not "broken" a number of factors can inhibit arousal even from something that normally stimulates you. Usually this happens when something more pressing distracts you whether something in your environment or you thinking consciously or even subconsciously about something else. I highly recommend (to everyone actually) the book "sexual intelligence" by Marty Klein. My wife recommended it to me when she got sick of my fetish and the fact that I was no longer wanting sex with her. Funny, the book made no mention of my interests being "wrong" and it turned out I had good reason for not wanting her (she was a bitch who dressed like a hippie and smelled horrible).

main point, don't think of yourself as broken unless you consistently are unable to do something you normally can and want to do. Then seek help.

Interesting. A few years ago, I got a chance to briefly feel a heavily pregnant co-worker's belly. Even for that I could barely contain my sexual arousal. I can't even imagine what it would be to sit next to a pregnant woman and rub her belly for an extended period of time. Of course, that could also be due to my own personal lack of sexual experience.

"Broken"? No, I don't think so. Maybe you were nervous. Maybe it felt forced. Any number of factors can cause that.

After my wife's first pregnancy, I went through a 1-2 year period where I had absolutely no desire to touch bellies. Part of it was because they weren't my wife's belly and it wasn't the same, and when I did touch a belly the thrill wasn't there like it had been. That came back with time, of course.

I wouldn't worry about it. The only thing I'd worry about is if you can't get it up to non-pregnant women. That's a sign that you're heading down a dangerous path to addiction.

You aren't broken, it happens to the best of us.

Think about this, are you attracted to every single pregnant woman that's out there? Are you attracted to every single woman period? Just because she has a belly doesn't mean you can automatically be attracted to her.

For me, I have to feel comfortable with the pregnant woman, and know that they understand and accept my fetish.

I think the fact that you weren't able to get aroused has more to do with her than it does with you. When you're with someone who really gets you going, you don't even have to think about it!

Hope this makes you feel a little better.