Bit of a weird one but how do we feel about postnatal bodies? This is someone who went to the same school as me after two having two kids and her butt, boobs and belly haven’t gone back to normal. Hot as fuck imo

Not a fan of it. They either return to the pre pregnancy body or end up with flab and sag.

This topic has come up before in previous threads. I love postpartum bellies and mom bodies.

I stopped at the supermarket after work last night. After getting my items I spotted a woman with a massive butt and thick thighs. She was standing near the Alcohol display. Good lord, she was seriously bottom-heavy!!!. I let her go in front of me at the checkout just so I could stand behind her and let that massive butt fuel my boner. Of course, she would be there the one time was not armed with my spy cam. I'm sure she has been pregnant more than once but I don't think her bottom size was completely caused by pushing out babies.

There is a medical condition similar to the one that causes women's breasts to grow insanely huge. Instead of enlarging the breasts, it causes the butt and thighs to expand. I looked it up on Google months ago and was blown away. I had no idea it existed. So if you see a woman who is crazy huge on the bottom it is not because everything she eats goes to her ass and thighs.

I'd have to agree with @"Way123" on this one: all the stretch, flab, and sag just isn't a good look. I don't feel good about that opinion though because it puts some pretty awful expectations on women's bodies (not like we don't already, but still). I mean, if there's going to be one change I actually like to see, it's bigger boobs due to milk engorgement. Even if they get kinda saggy after, that's just proof they've been full of milk and is cool to me. But everyone's going to have different thoughts on all of this, for sure.

I think it is very helpful for women to know that there are some men who love them and think they are hot regardless if they don't look like supermodels. Not every woman's body will heal the same after pregnancy and some will be left with changes they will have for the rest of their lives. What is attractive to me about mom bodies is they signal a woman has been pregnant and has given birth. Stretch marks, flab etc are all reminders that a woman's body has undergone the most beautiful transformation on earth.

I don't think the attraction to the imperfections puts "awful expectations" on women's bodies. Said imperfections are a natural part of the pregnancy process and should not be viewed as something that is ugly. Perhaps what is indeed an "awful expectation" is the pressure to remain perfect even as her body undergoes the stress and forces of pregnancy. It is a well-known fact that the average pregnant woman thinks very low of herself in regard to her body's appearance. There are several reasons for this which I won't get into here.

Indeed this is a case of whatever floats your boat. There is no right or wrong opinion.

I'm a fan.

(October 20, 2021, 5:30 pm)LTKNT101 Perhaps what is indeed an "awful expectation" is the pressure to remain perfect even as her body undergoes the stress and forces of pregnancy. It is a well-known fact that the average pregnant woman thinks very low of herself in regard to her body's appearance.

That is what I was referring to. As a society - or really, as a species - we expect so much from women regarding their appearance. This just adds to it. I hate to be part of that but I like what I like.

Honestly if a woman takes care of herself during her pregnancy things should be fine.....

I dont mind it.

seems to vary from woman to woman tbh. sometimes I love the postpartum body after 3 pregnancies and sometimes it just looks... used up after one. not even a fitness thing, I guess just genetics.