A question to the community

[lexicon]

Right, so I've been and admirer of the effects of pregnancy on women for about as long as I can remember, but have never really come out to anyone. Aside from having a fetish for pregnancies and bellies on "skinny" or "thin" girls, I also happen to be into girls who happen to not be pregnant, but the pregnancy thing trumps it all, by far. So, my question to this community: Is it typical amongst you guys/girls to fancy preggo chicks and simultaneously be in a relationship with a "normal" girl? Am I effectively cheating on my girlfriend everytime I check out pregnant women? How does one manage this kind of double life?

I should also note that she does know about my fetish, and doesn't look favorably upon me saving pics and frequenting sites like these, but its my fetish, I'm an adult, and its basically my right. Am I on to something or am I just another dude who watches porn behind my girlfriend's back?

I should also note that "porn" isn't necessarily my preferred consumption of preggo material.

I'd really appreciate your thoughts and views, just for the pure sake of my peace of mind.

Mega-Thanks in advance!!

[Akhenaten]

Well, kudos to you for telling her -- that's a step many of us aren't able to take in the first place for fear of judgment or outright rejection.

Now, to swing it back to reality, it's unfortunate but not altogether surprising that she isn't really impressed that you do what you gotta do to satisfy the craving. I share your opinion that you're an adult and you have every right to do what you need to do. I would just hope that if you plan to stay in your relationship for the long haul, you two can come to an understanding... unless she's going to indulge you (talking, pretending, for reals -- whatever), I believe it's important that she let you handle it guilt-free. Otherwise you'll probably both grow resentful over time.

My girl and I are both absolutely 100% against having kids, so I'll never get to experience the more fantastic possibilities of the fetish. Shucks. But I'm EXTREMELY lucky that she lets me take care of business without even the slightest bit of guilt. And take care of business I do. I don't know if her attitude is typical of most women (basically she recognizes I'm a male, I'm going to look, and I have an extra special thing I like to look at, so she just lets me)... I get the impression it's not... so it's probably not fair to compare your girl to mine by saying something like "she needs to be more open-minded for your sake!" -- because for all I know, mine is letting me walk all over her or something. But uh... yeah, my original statement stands, if I were in your shoes I would find it difficult to sustain things as they sound like they are going right now.

But that's just me. And I'm exhausted and making VERY little sense.

[lexicon]

Thanks, man. I guess sooner or later it'll come to a head, but we shall see. In the mean time, on with the show!

[Akhenaten]

Yeah, it doesn't sound like a huge problem necessarily. I guess if you two don't talk about it, it won't really come up. That *sort of* solves it.

[Belly Button]

I’m not in a relationship so unfortunately I can’t really offer any advice on that front. If I was in a relationship I know my feelings for the fetish would barely change. With her being aware of it and not looking too kindly on it, I would also try and come to some sort of compromise/resolution for the sake of the relationship.

Indeed - absolute full credit to you for telling her. I know I wouldn’t have the guts to tell just about anyone unless they gave me some sort of impression they were into something of this nature themselves. The only people who actually know about my pregnancy/belly expansion fetish is our community. No one I know in real life, male or female, are actually aware of it at all.

As long as pregnancy pictures doesn’t include any sort of clearly suggestive poses, complete nudity or sexual activity, I would personally struggle to class it as ‘porn’ but I wouldn’t want to look at sites like this in the company of anyone else. It’s definitely a ‘private time’ matter but I wouldn’t knock myself down about it if I was in a relationship as long as whatever I done online stuck to simply looking at pictures.

This is just my own slant on it, if it’s of any use...

[IntoPreggos]

I don't tell anyone really about my thing, but my brother and half-sister suspect I have it...and wouldn't my parents learned of this from them concerns me. If I was married (and only involved with my wife), it would be hard to tell her, but I must. She might want to be pregnant and have my children if she wanted them and she should be glad any man finds her pregnant body figure beautiful and attractive. I don't expect a future wife or GF to have the same attraction as me, then we need to open up when we trust someone we love.